Search Results: we are not in an official relationship

What should you do if you’re committed but not in an official relationship?

I’ve been seeing this guy for over 6 months, and we’ve been through several cycles of breaking up and getting back together again. At the moment, the best way to describe our relationship is friends with benefits....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Feeling very depressed Is the emotional abuse I endured by my father affecting me from having a stable relationship?

My father has been emotionally abusive my entire life, he has thrown my mother out of a car, he has made me owe him for providing necessities everyone should have for example like paying for food and he calls me selfish,...

Mollywolly

Xper 2 Age: 32

Relationships

How do you turn a casual relationship into an official one?

I’m casually seeing this guy, and we’re exclusive, although we’re officially just friends with benefits. However, he’s beginning to act like he has more serious feelings for me (flirting, complimenting me etc). We’ve been...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Trying a relationship long-distance with my best friend after our first break up?

Here is the situation. My best friend of 4 years, who I have liked for 3, is an incredibly nice guy. Months ago we confessed our feelings to one another. Our friendship slowly grew into something more, although we never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Was I in a D/S relationship?

I met my first love in a party and she approached me and we talked she asked for my number and after the party we talked. On our first date she made me cry by talking about my past, and she comforted me. I fell in love...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is it too soon to go on a trip with my boyfriend?

So I work with my boyfriend. A mutual friend/coworker wants to go to the beach (we live an hour and a half away from the beach by the way so it’s not like a huge trip). It’s pretty affordable to go also. This mutual...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does my ex want me back?

So I think my ex may want me back. Please guys let me know if I’m spot on , or looking to deep into it. So me and my ex share a child together. We been broken up for 3 years... he had his relationships on the side. I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I think my ex may want me back. Please guys let me know if I’m spot on , or looking to deep into it. So me and my ex share a child together. We been broken up for 3 years... he had

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Dating

Should I break up with my boyfriend or give our relationship a shot?

I've been dating a guy for two weeks and we talked for about two weeks before being "official". I love spending time with him, but I feel like he treats me as more of a friend and he's an extremely negative person. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How many relationships have you screwed up and what was the cause?

I got this girls number but I managed to screw it up by not asking her on an official date, instead I asked her to show me something, she ghosted me :/

chris_987

Yoda Age: 38

Relationships

Ladies, how long do you usually wait before you become an official couple?

How long do you usually date and hang out with a guy before you decide you want to be in a relationship with him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Girlfriend wants to go back to dating?

Ok, here's the deal. I'm 27, athletic, lift weights regularly and have a steady job. I met this woman through work about 6 months ago. She is 31 and has two kids. I have none. Things were going great at first. She'd...

BWheeler

Xper 4 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Girl I had a fling with is about to date someone new. I want to be friends with her, but I still have feelings. Should I wait a bit longer?

I'm 21 and she's like the first girl I've ever had real feelings for (not in anyway the first that I've hooked up with or gone out with). ended poorly about four weeks ago, but it seems like she's not mad at me for being...

bcall9747

Xper 6 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Mysterious guy behavior. I'm probably stupid for caring! Clues please?

Thank you for reading! A year or so ago I studied in a distant city. My coach took extra interest in me, we had some flirting, shared about our lives, spent a lot of time around each other, and obviously felt a...

hmmmm16

Xper 4 Age: 44

Dating

Am I just scared or did I lose feelings?

So there’s this guy that I’ve been exclusively dating for the past two months, and it’s been amazing and getting really close to being official. He’s funny, nice, caring, and we get along very well. I’m 19 and I’ve never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

The strained relations between Asian-Americans and liberals explained

Read this before you read the rest of the take: Politics aren’t black and white, everyone is different. It’s not a matter of what side you are on, it’s a matter of how much you support said side or whether you even...

ADFSDF1996

Influencer Age: 30

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Relationships

How can you have a serious relationship?

Ik a guy for 2 years now. I’m 21 and he’s 25. We used to work at the same job and still text almost daily and flirt and send pics and I don’t have connection with anyone else. He’s my 1st kiss. It’s a long story but we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How can this guy be my boyfriend I need advice?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is he gonna want them more?

boyfriend and I been together almost a year, he's shy and he's my first official boyfriend im his secomd girlfriend and it took us 2 months to even kiss. We live an hour apart and he drives down one day then i drive to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

he's going to want my friends?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why does this always happen to me?

boyfriend and I been together almost a year, he's shy and he's my first official boyfriend im his second girlfriend and it took us 2 months to even kiss when we first started to date. We live an hour apart and he drives...

Anonymous

(25-29)