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How do you stop comparing yourself to other women after being cheated on? Or how do you find a way to love yourself again?

Being left for another woman hurt, obviously. But when I lurked on this woman’s page (for my own closure), I was appalled. I had always considered myself to be the type of person who didn’t judge, who felt that everybody...
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What do you do if every time you like someone (or love them) they ghost?

I have been talking to a guy who I feel is getting ready to ghost me. It’s saddening because I can feel that things are going downhill and there is nothing I can do. It’s the same feeling I got when I was with my first...
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Ina difficult situation don't know what to think or how to feel anymore, advice please?

The guy I was in a relationship with for over 2 years just left me wanting to be alone and figure himself out, and he lives right next door to me which makes everything so much harder, his roommate and I don't get along...
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"Oh No, Not Another Take on Butt Exercises!"

The butt: that mystical mass of fat and muscle that has been pushed in our collective faces, figuratively and literally, since forever. Women are trying to grow/tone it because social media tells them to. Men are trying...
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Guy acting distant in bed?

My boyfriend has never really pushed me away when we sleep but for the past few days he’s been sleeping super far away, not touching me as much etc. could I be reading too much into this?
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Great first date but no contact after?

Met this guy through a mutual friend while in the clubs. Guy asked for my # and asked me out for a dinner. Tried to push him away by saying I dont do hookups but he said he didn't ask me out for hookups. So I decided to...
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Was the guy even really interested in me or did he try to use me?

I knew a guy (Let's call him John). I just came out of a break up and John started messaging me, saying: "He wants to help me get through the break up, because he know how it feels and went through a 2 year break up just...
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Why I feel so sad and angry - is it because I like them, and they dont choose me or because I just feel lonely?

so long story short i met this guy A 5 years ago. like him a lot, feels like he is the first guy i ever like that much and involved with, but something felt off all the time. like he didn't put much effort. yet I...
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Should I thoroughly apologize even if he doesn’t care or simply let it go and completely choose to never see him again?

I feel very guilty for being mean to this guy I’ve known forever. Due to my own insecurities I just kept avoiding him and making him feel like I don’t want to talk to him. He had been trying to get my attention and I...
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How to not get nervous easily?

Okay, so I'm kinda shaking while writing this because I'm nervous about asking the question and ima cri- anyways, I get nervous waaay too easily. I can't help it. I talk to a guy irl, through text, online and my heart...
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Should we blame the victim as well as the predator?

Whether it's about rape, theft, etc... I think we can really still blame the victim. If we truly care about the victim we should. Life isn't fair. We cannot stop the predator from being bad but the victim usually can do...
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I kissed a guy on our date. What do you think he thinks and if it’s bad, how can I fix what I did so that we can get back on the same page?

So I went on a second date with this guy. He took me to another city and we walked around and overlooked this beautiful lake. We tried to get some food but couldn’t get a parking space before everything was closed so we...
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If somebody is having a depressive episode how can you help if they are pushing you away?

I’m in the same position I was in with my ex boyfriend with somebody new. I can see the proof of him actually facing a difficult time in his life but I can’t resist feeling a little unsure. Just like with my ex, I wanted...
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"11 Habits That You Don't Realize Make You Seem Mean" Debunked

Alright so I found this article and it really irritated me because the person who wrote it says a lot of information about humanity and how people are that are just not generally true, and I will tell you exactly how most...
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Do guys try to push people attracted to them away intentionally?

A coworker I liked used to talk about girls he knew during our conversations or he'd swipe through Tinder right in front of me when we'd eat out during a hangout. I recently dated someone for a bit (the guy and I broke up...
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Let's Talk, Listen, Ask, and Understand (Part 1): "White Guilt", Speaking Up, "All Lives Matter".

Firstly, I wasn't even going to write about everything that's gone on now Because every time I speak my opinion on this website, people come down on me like a ton of bricks. I've been called names, had horrible things...
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Can you help a guy after a breakup?

My girlfriend after 3 years broke up with me because she "didn't feel loved" and her sister told her too. She completely ignores me and i have been in no contact for over a month. In this time I sought out counseling,...
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I told a guy how I often push men I'm interested in away and he said I could push him away. What exactly did he mean by that?

I hooked up with this guy once and in the middle of it, we were talking and I mentioned how I have intimacy issues, so when I like a guy and/or he likes me, I tend to push him away. He responded with "you could push me...
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Guy I'm seeing is grieving and has pushed me away?

A few weeks before lockdown, I met a guy through mutual friends (we are both 18), we managed to meet up once before lockdown and it went really well. We spoke everyday for about two months on text - with both of us...
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Problem Solving Men

Yesterday I had a puzzle to solve. A problem. At 12:05am, with the crowd-sourcing help of fellow male gaggers, I figured it out. I'd love to say that after that celebratory moment I fell into a heavy and blissful sleep...
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