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This is what I want in a long term relationship with a woman:

- financially independent but can work with me synergistically.
- exercises and diets well on most days.
- attractive enough that I want to have sex with her on regular basis.
- open minded to debate, but fights fair. Can be opinionated but not judgmental to point she cares more about being right vs. what IS right.
- no serious addictions. I've had a few minor issues with this, but it doesn’t control my life. So I will give her leeway for some sins. But I dated an alcoholic one time and I will never do it again.

In my entire life I have only dated one girl who fit all of these. But tragically we met me at the wrong time in my life and I ended up screwing it up. I owned up to that when we broke up.

However over 95 percent of the women I’ve met before and after her date me for the following shitty reasons:

- financial support
- briefly date and then friendzone. They try to keep me as orbiter for their own conceited bullshit reasons
- they are broken and looking for a “savior”.

I just feel that as a man I’m at an inherent disadvantage because women have more room to be choosy thanks to differences in sex drives.

As a man am I really expected to “settle”. I know a bunch of girls will say “oh follow your heart”. But they are 100% clueless on what dating is like for guys.

Are you ok with identifying dysfunction of people by color (or sex for that matter) for the purpose of improving that underlying culture? I especially want to hear from Democrats/left thinkers, but all may partake.

As a simple example, neither "black" race or Japanese race is perfect. And there may be people who are of mixed race... whatever. But if one goes into an all Japanese school (go to many of them) and then goes to black schools, the experience will be very different in terms of respect of teachers, honor, discipline, % involved in crime, suicide rates, etc. I am assuming that is. The Japanese culture is strong in family and honor, black culture is not.
Of course one has to realize there is no such thing, it is really culture, community. Behavior in one area can vary widely from another. But take a whole country o Japan vs Africa... big difference right? So there is something up...

Areyou willing to seek and identify correlation to identify goups of people for the purpose of improving the cultural behavior? Or do you not accept it and won't talk about it without getting upset because it's wrong?

Why do I ask: When I talk to people, republicans (no matter the color or race) and democrats seem to think different. I wonder if it holds true or my data set is too small.

I consider myself independent...