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I'm a 39-year-old woman thinking of dating a 24-year-old man, but I'm worried about the age gap. Advice? What should I do?

I'm a 39-year-old woman who is seriously considering dating a 24-year-old guy. We met about 3 months ago and have progressively been seeing each other more and more frequently. Last night he strongly hinted he wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn't answer him because I do have a few worries about the age difference.

Firstly, I'm highly attracted to him on many levels. I honestly don't feel an age gap when I'm around him. We have a lot in common/he's easy to talk to, he constantly makes me laugh, he treats me very well, and his body drives me wild! We've had sex a couple of times now and he made me feel so amazing! If it wasn't for the age gap I would have said "yes" in a heartbeat. However, even though I am very attracted to him I'm trying to think with my head and figure out if dating someone so much younger is a good idea. He is 15 years younger than me. I am concerned he may be in a different place than me. Maybe I'm too worried because he has finished grad school and he does have a good-paying job (I wouldn't be a sugar mama). Again, I don't feel an age gap when I'm around him, but 15 years is a significant gap and I do worry it may become an issue. From my understanding, such a big age gap can be an issue in and of itself. Furthermore, I am a little concerned about how my family would react to me dating someone so much younger.

The whole "if he wants kids" issue isn't a problem for me because I want more kids. I have 1 son right now (10 years old), but the only reason I never had one or two more is my ex-husband didn't want more. I personally would love to have 1-2 more and I'm not so old for that to be out of possibility.

I really like him and I want to date him, but I'm also trying to figure out if the age difference would be a big problem. Should I date him? Would the age gap be a big problem? Why or why not? Thank you for your help!
I'm a 39-year-old woman thinking of dating a 24-year-old man, but I'm worried about the age gap. Advice? What should I do?
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