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I was just warned away from a girl that just got engaged. Can't really say why though. I haven't flirted with as far as I can recall. I've treated her the same as everyone else. Which only leads me to think that the temptation to possibly cheat is on her end and not mine.

Looking back I may have been warned more than a few times about various women. Never listened to the warnings back in the day and only listen now to avoid any drama. Thought I'd ask all y'all.

Assume these girls are twins as far as appearance goes and you were forced to choose a relationship with one or the other.

Girls, which would you rather be?

So, I'm approaching 30yo now. I'm fairly successful financially, having spent most of my twenties (since graduating uni with a 1st) establishing my own business enterprise, and clawed my way out of the gutter. Needless to say, I'm quite intelligent, both mentally and socially, and capable of holding my own when it comes to conversation, negotiation and presentation. I'm also extremely fit, athletic, handsome, and 'well-endowed', so to speak. However, I still have no romantic experience whatsoever, save for a few years of online dating, and a few first dates which never went any further; one of them turned out to be a catfish with a fake profile pic, another only wanted a casual friends with benefits relationship (which I refused on principle), and didn't have any real chemistry with either of the other two. At my age, then, is it already too late? Would any good woman, one worth pursuing a LTR with, still be willing to consider dating me in spite of this? Or is it just going to be a long line of single mums, sugar-babies and other gold-diggers that I'll have to choose from now?

At my work, Walmart, there's this girl I have noticed that is interested in me. Her mom shops there occasionally and told me the a couple weeks ago that her daughter liked me. Me thinking that her mom is just trying to help her daughter find a boyfriend didn't read into it too much but this is how i noticed her behavior towards me as i am like a rock and dense when it come to people flirting with me (unless it's super blatant).

I transfered to this store to be a department manager and she is an associate. Far as i know it not against policy to date employees so long as you are not their supervisor and I work in the fresh food area and she is a gm associate. She is a well known associate and I am a keep to himself and work type. I'm unsure if I should act on her feelings as there's a few barriers I have and seek input.

The biggest barrier: it does go against my personal beliefs to date co-workers. Even though we work on different sides of the store if things where to work out bad I don't want it to cause trouble among my other co-workers as I mentioned above she is well known and talks to the other associates more than I do.

I have talked with her on fb messenger a little bit and from the conversations we've had I do feel we would get along but tbh I have never really been in a relationship and am naturally socially awkward when talking to people.

Ultimately I feel that because of my lack of experience and possible troubled relations with coworkers that i should not pursue this and tell her this. At the same time I'm in my 30's and am aware that my "dating pool" is getting smaller and smaller the older i get. I'm tired of being single and not having very good luck with finding someone. Am i looking too much into this or are my thoughts in the right direction?

Been in the dating scene for the past 7-8 years, like every guy out there at first i thought that love, compassion and attention will get you the girl, since i saw some guys making it work... turns out these guys either seriously lucked out out or had other attractive qualities "money" .

In reality the dating scene was a little more complicated than showing love and attention to get women, i once ignored a girl whom i had feelings for and for some reason she decided to not pursue anything with me any further, and i was surprised when she came to me a while later asking why do i avoid her and showing far more interest in me than before... my first ex i almost showed no interest in and never considered dating or flirting with her but after a few text messages (she messaged me) we ended up going on a date and dating for a while, my now ex acted weird and distant at first, so i ignored her, she started pursuing me harder and finally i told her i have no interest in girl who acts like she does (she is hot by the way ) ... the result? dated for 3 months, she probably even left her boyfriend to date me.

between these two gfs i met plenty of women be it at college or out of college, and what i noticed was that showing any kind of attention in women almost always led to them losing interest in me, when i acted distant and made no effort i had compliments and interest from all kinds of girls and they werent shy about showing it, showing little to no interest in women has helped me a lot and i still can't figure out why is it like that?