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sociopathic tendencies- lack of remorse, guilt or shame of ones bad actions. immaturity, compulsive pathological liars, manipulative, conning, deceptive. huge ego. superficial charm and high intelligence. unfaithful and promiscuous. untruthfulness and insincerity. poor judgement and failure to learn from past mistakes. lack of empathy. shallow/show little feelings. have big self worth and feel they are more important than others. narcissistic and arrogant. masters of deception. main purpose is to get what they want, regardless of how it will harm others. often lie and put on false faces.

tendencies- lack of remorse, guilt or shame. immaturity, pathological liars, manipulative, conning, deceptive. big ego. unfaithful and promiscuous. untruthful and insincere. poor judgement and failure to learn from past mistakes. lack of empathy. shallow/show little feelings. have big self worth and feel they are more important than others. narcissistic and arrogant. masters of deception. main purpose is to get what they want, regardless of how it will harm others. often lie and put on false faces.

how he acted- once said he was with his mom, but she asked me if I knew were he was. kept cheating on me a secret for a month. lied about the details and fabircated a story. if I ever brought up breaking up, he'd send pictures of us & say things like "u are the love of my life" "we're meant for each other". dumped me after cheating and a week later had sex with another girl. lied about drugs various times. admitted to using me for sex after we broke up. knew I cared about him and made it seem as if he had feelings for me when he didn't just so I would sleep with him. cheated on his current girlfriend w me 6 times. left me in a cold car while he went to a party and didn't feel badly about it. told me he didn't like certain people but to their face would act like they were his bff's. after break up said "Ill always love you" "we'll still end up together" to keep me waiting around. would text & go to lunch with other girls. found him laying with other girls at parties. would say 1 thing but act completley differently. thought highly of himself and had a hard time admiting he was wrong. people called him a robot because they said he had no feelings. was verbally manipulative, knew exactly what to say to get me to do what he wanted. drinks hard alcohol every night. I found a message on his phone saying "OMG I am so done with her" but he never brought up what was wrong to me, acted like everything was fine. list could go on and on...

I had an interesting discussion with my cousin who is a few years younger than myself about relationships.
She doesn't want to have a boyfriend because she feels like she'd be giving up her independence and time out with friends and such.
I think that's a sign of immaturity and naturally she disagrees lol.

So what do you guys think? Immature or not? And why?

Here are some examples of things my ex boyfriend has lied about

1. doing drugs
2. cheating on me and keeping it a secret for a month
3. who he had cheated on me with and how many times
4. telling me he liked me but then saying he was only using me for sex
5. I asked him what he was doing and he said he with his mom, but then his mom asked me if I had heard from him because she hadn't seen him
6. deleting messages
7. instead of confronting me about a problem he has with our relatinship, going to other girls and telling them whats wrong, but to my face acts like nothing is wrong
8. acting one way in person (loving, affectionte) and a completely other way in text (cold, dry)
9. saying he thinks someone is really annoying but then when he says them in person he acts very friendly towards them
10. Going out to eat with other girls and not telling me, so I end up finding out through someone else
11. getting in trouble for drugs
12. whether or not he was high
13. saying he would always love me but then later admitting he only said that to soften the break up
14. saying he wants to see me but when I drive four hours and get there he says he actually didn't want me to and should have told me not to come, then makes me sleep in a cold car while he is at a frat party
15. seeming like he loves hanging out with me but later saying it feels as if nothing is there
16. telling me he was going home but then I got a picture of him at a party
17. drinking alcohol
18. leading me on and then saying he has no feelings
19. taking pictures of me while having sex and not telling me or asking for permission, and denying it when I ask

there are many other things he has a lied about to my knowledge, and im sure there are many im not aware of. can someone like this make a good husband? he's 18, turning 19 soon so it could me immaturity or is it possible this is just his personality?