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Search Results: men find confidence attractive
How can I make myself more appealing?
hey ladies, what in a man do you first find attractive? is it strictly physical? if not, what do you find attractive in a guys personality? is it humor, confidence, or what? I am not the most attractive guy but its not...
105Guitarist
Xper 5 Age: 36 Why exactly do good guys finish last?
i feel that a lot of times, good guys are some of the more emotionally mature people out there, a lot of times they're aren't followers of the crowd necessarily, they typically want to find love and a commitment more so...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do women value the name brand of clothes men wear over how they wear them?
In other words do women like men that wear clothes that are name brand more or do women like men who wear clothes that are clothes that go together or match more. Another way to looks at this question might be "name brand...
Anonymous
(30-35) What men THINK matters to us vs. what DOES?
I've been back in the game for a few months now after one of those traumatic break ups. This time to myself has been amazing and I don't want to jump back into a relationship for a while. But I have been dating off and...
Reneewithlove
Xper 3 Age: 37 I'm a skinny man looking to bulk up. If you like skinny guys would it bother you if they gained some muscle?
I'm on the smaller side, 5'8" tall and 120lbs currently. I bought some weight equipment and studied up on how to put on good muscle mass with definition. I'd like to work myself up to about 150lbs by the end of the...
babystarfox
Xper 4 Age: 40 Men and women! What's more important, looks or personality?
I'm just curious to see the results of this. What is more important if you could only pick one. Obviously everyone hopes to find both, but if you were forced to pick. Could you date someone with your ideal personality...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is the most unattractive personality trait in a man?
If he is a very good looking guy and you find him physically attractive, what would he have to do to turn you off and make you not go out with him even once? Like if he was needy, or lacking confidence, or poor, or too...
blacksheep824
Xper 5 Age: 45 Strange situation - I have boyfriend and lover who has a girlfriend. I'm with my boyfriend for more than 2 years?
I really wanted our relationship to work, cause I had divorce and I have a child before I met him,i was alone for two years, without having relationship with men and I was choosing very carefully for person I'll be...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it time to tell my ex how I feel?
He broke up with me even though he deeply loved me. I was a commitment phobe, I pushed him away. 2 weeks later he was with someone he doesn't find attractive and barely knows. I never asked for him back, I moved on. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Chase Theory: A Compliment
This article is in response to The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy . Notes about Response: Although my responses to articles are usually sharply critical, this author has actually moved me. This...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 Why are good guys targeted as being these "awful guys?"
I hear how good guys are "in reality... spineless, wimpy, manipulative jerks, etc." I've heard it all. or how girls seem to think good guys are just another threatening guy that is out to get them, when they end up going...
Anonymous
(30-35) Men: How to Have A Successful First Date
Gentlemen, I have been reading your questions on this site, and it seems that it is high time that you found out what it is that a woman really wants in a man. If you want to go out there and have successful dates, I...
SmiffyJay
Xper 5 Age: 35 When a woman intimidates you, how do you usually respond to it?
I'm talking about the type of woman who bewilders you, you haven't even spoken to her yet and she's already driving you nuts, she's very attractive, you can also pin-point that she's not a typical stupid-ass random girl...
Emeleia
Xper 3 Age: 34 Random turn ons?
aside from the obvious "confidence, humor, nice smile, blah blah blah," what do women find attractive in a man? I'm looking for random specifics here people :)
ikarus
Xper 4 Age: 39 I Don't Care About Women/Dating Anymore?
I'm not too sure why I am posting this, I don't believe that I'll find an answer here. I am a decent looking guy. 6'1" 190 lbs with blue eyes and I am told I am attractive. I've had a bit of a financial meltdown...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Shy Guys And The Shy Complex
Okay shy guys, we get it. You're shy. But don't be. I realize that is easier said than done, but if you make a real effort to come out of your shell, girls will notice and you will find yourself with options you...
Enchanted_x3
Xper 6 Age: 36 Opinions on weight?
I'm terrified of gaining weight, it's one of my biggest fears. Recently I've gained a little weight, around 5-10 pounds or so, and I feel disgusting. I'm around 135 pounds at 5'5 and I just feel gross. I feel bulbous,...
Anonymous
(36-45) You're an average guy and you walk into a bar?
I mean average in the most vague sense. You are average-looking, average-height, average-build, you like sports (or don't, whatever), think Angelina Jolie is a hottie but have realistic expectations about real women. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Will I ever find someone to love, or am I hopeless?
Let me start by saying, I know this is going to sound like I am just crying and have no interest in trying to fix myself. I have tried, for a long time, nothing has worked. All I want is some girl to love, a girl to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I get plastic surgery?
I feel that I'm ugly and have no confidence in my looks. I'd like to have plastic surgery so I can have more confidence in my looks. Should I even get plastic surgery? I feel that the benefits overweigh the consequences....
Anonymous
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