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I met an unexpected guy through blog. At first met, I find him unattractive and seems a very ordinary person. As woman , I know I have set myself standard into a tall, handsome , good spoken English, talented or sporty.

I invited him in a movie house after I was ignored by my date and had some job problems. We had a good time together , he was attracted to me, very clingy and we had sex to our very first date.
He was very happy and kept texting me after that and we spent few more dates together outside in public.

On our fourth date, he invited me to his hotel and had sex again. It was a really wild one. And I know I am not this kind of girl sleeping with a guy immediately. A lot of guys even amazing ones dated me but we never went to a bed or had sex. This was my first time and I don't understand myself why my body gets too comfortable to him. But then , He admitted to me that he is a fuckboy.

But lately , he apologized that he lied to me about his relationship status single. He is still in a relationship but no closure. And said he doesn't love me and was tempted. I get hurt from his words and to the point I refuse to text and see him again. But I do miss him a lot especially when I hugged my pillow. I remember the moments we had skin to skin together.

Today , I would like to ask from readers if what I felt for this guy is love?
Or if this is just a lust? Since, he was the first guy who I had sex, lost my virginity and maybe just overreacted that this is love?

(I need serious response , thanks ! )

Rachel is 18 years old. She's pregnant by a 30 year old recently graduated high school with C average grades. Rachel gave birth to a baby boy, she never went to college and got a job as a real estate agent. She got married by the guy and they had another baby together. With Rachel's job and her husbands online teaching job they make 50K a year. Rachel knew it was stupid of her to get pregnant at such a young age but she felt like she did the right thing because her husband was nerdy, dorky, sensitive man.

Daisy is 17 years old. She has decent grades, graduated high school and went to college to get a degree in fashion. Daisy had a lot of friends, was popular and while she was rich her pants spoiled her rotten and gave her everything. at 19 She's in 40k in debt. Since her parents had no money she started stripping and having sex with guys for money. At 19, she gets pregnant, has an abortion, and a week later gets an STD. Her debt went up to 80K and she knew that if she kept going she would be 100K in debt for her degree and she didn't know what to do. She dropped out for a few months. At 21 she was a little overweight, 80K in debt and had two abortions. She borrowed another 30K for her degree. At 27 she was living with her parents, single, and had a unpaid fashion intership... She lost weight and started wearing makeup, became a model but money wise she a mess. She only paid off 20K and still had 70K left over to pay. At 30 she was still single and still lived with her parents.

I am single and recently has been dating these three guys and I am confuse who should I have a relationship with. I cannot decide because I am bad at making decision and I highly need assistance or advice from other people. And of course, I want to commit myself to a guy who I can live the rest of my life with. I am not sure if these guys is already Mr. Right or they are not

Shen: He was the guy I firstly fell in love with but he cheated on me and dated another girl. I think they had a relationship but did not last. And now he came back to me into his better self. He said he wants to have a real relationship with me. I turned into a two timer person because of this guy and until now I still hate him. I don't know if I should trust or love him again

Yang: I only met this guy online and we happen to meet. He was very handsome. I felt had a great crush on him. We dated and had sweet talks. I really like him but he is inconsistent and he only talk to me when he wants to hang out. I pranked him out that I am hurt of his inconsistence. He replied, "You don't have to be hurt. I was just busy and I get sick. You sleep well and take care."

Van: I met this unexpected guy three days ago , we watched in a movie house and had some snack. It happen that he kissed me and we had sex. The next days he still continue to communicate with me and said he is serious about me. He still wants to meet me , talk to me and spend time. He is indeed consistent guy

So I’ve been talking to this guy for the past month. We hang out every single day, spend the night at each other’s places sometimes, we’ve hooked up like 5 times.

Yesterday morning he called me and said he wanted to spend the day together, so we had a breakfast date, jammed in his car, went back to his place, and had some BOMB sex. I had to go to work at 2:30 but he reminded me that we were hanging out at 8 and kissed me goodbye.

Fast forward to 8. I get there, handle of Bacardi, ready to drink for the first time in ages. Long story short, got a little too drunk, to the point where he didn’t think I could drive— I honestly could’ve. I had to be home by 1 because curfew. He made his best friend drive my car and follow me and him in his car to my house.

I’m not sure how this conversation started but during the car ride he told me he didn’t care if I died, and just that he didn’t want me to get pulled over. First of all, what the fuck? I asked him if he meant that, and he said said it again. “I don’t care if you die, I don’t care if anyone dies.” Like who fucking says that? To be fair he did tell me he was feeling really depressed, I asked him what I could do to help him, he said to wait a day and he’ll be fine.

Anyways, after asking him again like what the fuck dude, he said “no, I’d care if you died.” He then proceeded to tell me he has “a lot of love for me.” I feel like he was just telling me things I wanted to hear.

One more thing. We were discussing tinder earlier in the day, and he said he wasn’t about that Tinder life, and I agreed, which is true for me, I don’t have the app. When he let me pick the song on the ride home, he handed me his phone, and Tinder was one of the recommended apps from the drop down list. Also he was talking to some girl named Natalie on there?

Am I overthinking this? Am I overreacting?
To be honest I’m still a little drunk and just overall confused. I’m sure we’ll hang out tonight, but I’m tired of these mixed signals.