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I have this friend (let's call her Debbie) and I've known her since 2011. She used to hangout with her sister a lot until her sister had her baby boy and now she's been asking me to hang with her because our other friends are busy with their lives. I'm busy too and Debbie tells me that I'm her 'only' friend which I don't believe. Anyways this weekend after we went shopping we got on the wrong bus and I told the bus driver where we were going and I realized we were on the wrong bus. Debbie got nerves and got very upset with me and told me I was very stupid and we weren't going to the club. I explained everything to her and she was like okay and apologized and I told her no I was sorry. Then when I was looking up the bus schedule, she was very impatient with me and I got firm with her. I was thinking about my aunt that's in the hospital and cried about. My friend told me everything was going to be alright. Then when we got back to her house, she called me a crybaby about it. Then yesterday when we couldn't get a ride. She she called her guy friend and wanted ME to talk to him. She told me to tell him that "Heey (Let's call him George) it's me Anna (me) and I've been thinking about you." I told her no and she shoved me and told me I was being paranoid. She told me to ask him out and ask him what he's doing next weekend. I told her no. Then she grabbed my phone and talked to him. I tried to get my phone back. She set him and I up on a date this Saturday night. Well she's going with us too. I was fustrated with her but I didn't show it and she told me she wasn't being right and I was like okay and let it go. Great! I have a date this weekend with a guy I barley even know thanks to Debbie! I don't even know if he likes me! Am I too nice. Debbie pushes me around sometimes and gets impatient with me at times. She knows I'm autistic too. When we joke around, my friends was like, "Why do you always get mad when I mess with you? Stop being a bitch."

So these days most people sleep together first, or within weeks of meeting someone. Things happen too soon in some cases an the stages of courting and truly getting. to know the person doesn't seem. to happen.

People tend to learn about eachothers bodies before their minds. Fair enough to those who want and have FWBs. Thats their choice but I am talking about dating and enjoying getting. to know someone.

Guys I meet after one date I know I dont know them enough for sex or anything else. I do kiss early on but other stuff doesn't need to be rushed. Most guys seem. to have crazy sex drives and no self control but thats a whole other issue. Thing is if someone wants sex after date two its very obvious they are not after a relationship or any commitment.

I have only met one guy who was patient and decent my first ever bf. An he was just 17 when I was 19. Guys I met after him have all been wasting. my time. Saying they love me for sex, saying they want to move in to get sex, wanting me to sleep over for sex. Had many dates but only with my first bf. An a guy cooked for me one time but even he couldnt. control himself.

I understand humans are sexual beings but why the need to rush it. Guys I've met up with aged between 22-32 have all been wanting sex straightaway but claimed they want a gf. As soon as I meet a guy I dont feel like having sex and do not feel that until I know about them and spend time with them but guys are visual an feel it quickly right?

Out of the 8 guys I've met 7 were too impatient and one was totally patient. So I am uncertain as to whether iwill find a guy with a little bit of patience. I am talking 2-3months max.