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Its a long distance relationship, we've been together for 7 months. we had a talk last week about what we re going to do so we could be closer to each other and make this work...its gonna take time though.

He leaves for the holiday with a friend of his, he is still on vacation, he messaged me last night saying "we have a very special relationship, what would you define us as?"

so I sent him a message saying "i define us as Together, more detailed version as two individuals who their paths crossed for some reason, and we've decided to take a walk together.

we keep walking until its a dead end with either doors for us to open (hopefully) or one of us will make a turn, its a work of fate =)"

he asks me then, do you mean like getting married, doors open?

i said I don't know but if years go by and you were in my life then eventually yes but I don't want to scare you.

then he says "Baby I love you so much, you re such a babe, but years go by? how could I possibly stay faithful ? "

this is the first time he says I love you, I've never said anything either... and I didn't say I love you too.

so I started asking him what he wants, he didn't reply. then I sent him another message telling him to tell me what's going on in his mind and also nothing.

I flipped out and sent him another message saying he shouldn't freak out if he doesn't want that to happen and he should at least explain... I also got nothing!

He always jokes around about honeymoon, when we grow old together and stuff like that, but I didn't think he was serious...

Now I don't know

either he wants us to get married and got all weird all of a sudden because I didn't say I love you too?

Or

he is freaking out about what I said?

Please vote so I know what is going on in his mind, he won't open up!

P.s he is 27 and am 24