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Work things out with old friend yay or nay?

Details for the curious...

Long time friend and I had a fight and stopped talking for half a year. Started talking again and making up for several months. Never wanted to hang out, dealing with a crappy/junky boyfriend. I understood and was patient with her till they broke up. Couple weeks after they broke up I just came out and told her I want us to date. Which started out unsure and didn't want anything serious so soon after such a bad relationship, again understandable. But as things started getting more intimate between us. Her ex kept calling her trying to talk to her "I changed" kind of crap. Eventually she gave in and picked up the phone. After that I don't hear from her for a few days then she starts pushing me away, a complete 180. I pretty much told her that if she's going to be hung up on her addict ex I call it over. I was sitting on the phone with her when everything between those two made her so depressed she was turning suicidal, I care for her I just don't have the energy to stay by her if she keeps doing it to herself. The last thing I said to her was I'm moving on, I don't care anymore and you screwed up after her telling me the idea of us dating or hanging out makes her uncomfortable.

I was happy with moving on till I saw someone end things with his 9 year girlfriend by saying "I'm bored of you". Reckful if anyone else watches twitch

Either way I know I'm going to sleep on this before I decide on anything to do.

Okay so, a friend and I were planning on going to a club on Friday , she's amazing, really fit with a really fun sense of humour and I love spending time with her. Unfortunately she is in a long distance relationship & I'm single & we hang out a lot together & she sometimes teases me about being single.. Anyway we were supposed to go to this club on Friday (I always go there but she never does, its an underground club) anyway she kept pestering me to go there with her and eventually I gave in and said yes, then I found out her ex (who she mentions sometimes) was also going and figured she wanted me to go there with her to make her ex jealous. (Her ex hates me btw). Anyway I went to a house party instead & she went to a different club but kept messaging / calling me asking me to come meet her. So i left the party and went to meet her & her friend (who i slept with last year) i bought a roud of shots and started getting touchy feely with her friend while she sat in a corner either glaring at us or texting her boyfriend. Then after 5 mins of me arriving she left. I got drunk went home and 7 in the morning and was woken up by her calling me 3 hours later asking if I was with her friend... I said no and went back to sleep, then I called her back in the evening and she was really cold with me (i asked where she was and she was like "eating" then i asked where again and she replies "are you the FBI or something? If you ask me again we're going to have a massive argument" i left it at that and texted her the next day to ask why she was mad at me.. She answered an hour later (normally answers staight away) that she wasn't and why i thought that with a winky face, so i replied because i hate seeing her with other guys and the thought of it makes me angry and that I wanted to punch her ex because he's a d***. She answered that she was confused so I replied that I was sorry but I was a bit jealous of her being with other guys and now she's not answering my call or texts..

Basically it's been 7 months since we broke up and I was convinced like 3 months ago I was over her. I stopped thinking about her I thought about other girls, I was with other girls and my ex never crossed my mind as someone I wanted to be with. We have the same friends so we stayed friends and managed to make it work. We still talk but not very much. I've found myself thinking about her again. Especially today. I woke up from a dream where my friend was asking her to prom and I just kept telling myself i just want her to be happy. I woke up missing her like crazy. I can't stop thinking about her and I'm realizing I never got over her. She's been sick and throughout the 7 months I've been calling her asking how she was doing and we had some nice conversations. When she got dumped by a boyfriend I called her to check up and when she got dumped again I called her and we talked and had a nice a conversation. I now realize that I've been subconsciously trying to get her to think I'm the guy for her and I'm always there. I don't know what to do. I miss her insanely right now and I can't decide whether I should tell her I have feelings for her or just let it be and move on. She's perfect, nobody realizes how amazing she is and she keeps getting the wrong guy. I've changed since the break up everyone thinks so. What do I do any advice is appreciated