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There's this guy in a couple of my classes and is on my bus, so I'm around him a lot. He definitely flirts w/this other girl in our class which I find annoying. It's not because I like him, but they disrupt the class. In our one classes he sits next to me. It's a circular table, not a desk, so we sit fairly close to each other. Two days ago, he kept turning around in his seat to copy down notes on the board and his knee kept brushing his knee against mine. I don't care about physical contact, so I just let it be. My knee stayed in place cause it was there first, but he wouldn't move his & kept it there for a long time. Today, he was helping me out in class & leaned over to help me with a problem. It was completely unnecessary for him to lean so far into me. Our faces were quite close. Our elbows kept touching too, & once again, he wouldn't move his.

I'm a flirt so I don't mind it too much, but I'm not interested in him... yet, lol. I'm just curious. He doesn't exactly flirt with many people. I'm pretty sure it's just this other girl in our class and possibly me. It's a small school & he doesn't socialize with many of the girls. He's a little anti-social. We chat for long periods of time though. I'm one of the few who do.

Would you say he's flirting/interested, or am I making this up in my mind, haha?

There is a group of friends who are in one of my classes who I hang out with. One of the guys in the group is dating my friend. I actually kind of have a thing for him becuase he is super funny and nice. We started texting a little and now just mainly snapchat and sometimes use the snapchat chat feature (I personally like using snapchat instead of text for everyone so this wasn't weird). Well he would always say how pretty I was or how he liked my boobs and I thought he was flirting, until he asked out my friend who is also in our class. I was pretty bummed but I moved on. We kept snapchatting and he kept getting more and more flirtier, saying how I am gorgeous or my body is super nice (I do send mirror pictures of me wearing like a sports bra and PJ pants and honestly my boobs are jsut really big so they are all over the place (I can't control it)) and always screenshots my snaps becuase "i look hot". He asked what my bra size was and I told him bc I dont hide it, if someone asks for my cup size i tell them and he isn't the first of my guy friends to know. Well then he asked for nudes. I told him no bc I dont wanna be a home wrecker and he is still dating my friend. He keeps saying he won't show anyone. I am upset becuase I know he is using me for my body and I still like him. Do I tell my friend who he is dating what he is doing? Me and her aren't close but she is really close with my BFF. I dont want her to get mad at me for flirting (because honestly I was and i feel so stupid and bad becuase I knew in the back of my head he was just using me for my body and he was still dating my friend but I had a major crush on him and I guess I wasn't thinking straight) and I dont want him to get mad at me for telling her. This is a super awkward place to be and I dont know what to do. HELP!

Traditionally, I believe the "He's Just Not That Into You" theory. If a guy likes you, he'll make time to be with you. The question then becomes HOW MUCH TIME will that be? Should we be expected to swap daily constant texts etc. (which is a little over the top for me) or is the connection at the end of the week enough during the flirting/dating phase?

I don't like the borderline stalker who is always texting "where are you?" or the creepy fellow who doesn't know you at all but texts you "good morning"/"good night" with smoochy emoji daily... It's too much, especially with a new person you don't know well.

But what if a guy is busy all the time? I don't mean the "I can't talk, I'm busy" type, but the guy who has been single long enough that he doesn't actually cull out time to be on his own, relaxing, inactive with the potential to fill the gap with social activities or a relationship.

Which brings me to the fellow my friend is trying to set me up with. He's a nice guy and the 4S's -- smart, sweet, sexy, single -- which is great, but he's not ever really available. Even the time he makes to chat with ends with him getting caught up in business or between clients etc. A couple of times since we've met he's taken the time to meet with me, but always ends up being called to business by other people.

Is it worth the effort to be patient and see if he makes more of an effort?