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My friend of 10 years blocked me. She asked me to hang out with her but she has a habit of only spending an hour and then leaving.

Me: Hey hun, just a reminder to please advise if you are only hanging out for an hour or two, just because Eastland is far for me to get to and there is no point in me getting there if we are just hanging out for a short time.

Her: It isn't easy for me to arrange anything locally (she doesn't have a car). Are you happy to do dinner one weekend?

Me: Yeah sure. But please just next time if you are only planning to spend an hour , let me know so I can make other plans.

Her: For clarity, lunch is usually an hour. Have a good weekend.

THIs is when I got really snippy, I knew she was throwing shade.

Me : For clarity to you too, I specifically said that I won't be going out anywhere if only for an hour. Don't bother inviting me anywhere if this is the case. It isn't fair. I thought you originally wanted to look at dresses. So do not get snippy with me! I was not confused in the least.

Her: like I said, sorry about the confusion. Hope your weekend has not been ruined.

Me: No it hasn't been ruined. Again I Am not confused. Stop being rude. And you can look for another maid of honor. I am done.

Her: I didn't mean that as an attack. I was confused at the length of time it was to hang out. My mistake which is why I apologised for the confusion. You don't have to be my maid of honor, I won't force you.

Me: I think you were confused yourself. I took a lot of crap from you over the years which I tolerated because I valued your friendship. But now, I Had enough. Good luck on your wedding.

Her: Forgive me for thinking you were my close friend and thanks for disillusioning me.

Me : Oh really? You're playing victim? You don't know the meaning of friendship! You are spoiled, rude and only nice when convenient! I am glad I saw your true face!

Then she blocked me.

Was I wrong?

I know this is kind of a ridiculous question; but yeah.

I haven't heard from him since midnight-yesterday. That was after texting him 3 texts. I sent one around 10am, one around 12pm AND one around 12am. I didn't think going 12 hours without texting someone and then deciding to was clingy? He said something about hanging out today if it was nice--and couldn't tell me that he changed his mind. Hence; we didn't hang (luckily the weather is rainy).

I'm pretty sure he was just upset about us not being able to have a threesome. We found a girl for it--but then we found out she was engaged and NOT going to leave her fiancee. This went on for about 3 weeks. I became close friends with her, and he was sort of acquaintances with her because seriously... how far can a man get talking to an engaged person?

It was doomed from the start, but I think we both really cared about her. THEN we find out she's moving a whole state over! I have no problem with long distance friendships--but I don't think HE sees the point in it at all. Instead of laughing about it like usual--he closes up and says; "No texting unless I respond from now on." I've never gotten the "okay to text him" today, yet.

I'm sitting here like...*I didn't break up with you, SHE ended this!*