Search Results: how do friends handle the break-up

Girlfriend meeting up with her recent ex..... how to handle this?

Hey Essentially they were a couple for 18 months "long distance" and it wasn't working. A lot of arguing and him not willing to make the effort (according to her side of the story obviously) background being they were...

BigBlueEyes

Xper 5 Age: 45

What's up with my ex?

Hey, I'm 23 and my ex is 21. We are students at the same university. 6 weeks ago, my girlfriend broke up with me after a 2-year relationship. We'd increasingly been having arguments and she blamed most of the problems...

pallasc

Xper 5 Age: 39

Relationships

Should I stay away from relationships because of my condition?

People say I am very cheerful and basically a fun and outgoing person to be around. My friends like me, I would say I have a pretty good personality, and appearance is average. Overall speaking, I think I would make a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She says she needs to figure herself out, what does that mean?

So I've known this girl for 10 years. We have a romantic past and she was dating a friend of mine. her and I hooked up and she then broke up with him. She claimed she was doing it for herself but I feel like that may...

bt8888

Xper 5 Age: 43

How come guys are mean after a breakup?

My boyfriend broke up with me, and now he just talks about me, ignores me, and is very angry all of a sudden. We were best friends. This hurts. Why did he do this if he can't seem to handle it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Time to drop the no contact?

After a short but passionate relationship I was dumped. I think we both got a little carried away and should have slowed things down. During the breakup convo she said she still wanted to remain friends but I said I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Ex Boyfriend Issues

Not sure what is going on in his head. I suppose I initiated the breakup when I asked him how he felt for me. He responded with saying his feelings weren't all that strong, but he didn't know why they weren't growing. I...

yokosrei

Xper 4 Age: 35

Giving Your Partner A Second Chance

Lets say you've been in a relationship for 2+ years and you broke up with someone. The reason being that they were too demanding of your time and you felt like they were preventing you from spending time with friends and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get my ex boyfriend back?

My boyfriend and I had been dating for about a month when he suddenly broke up with me. It was a surprise to me, my family, and our mutual friends. We work at the same place and there has been a lot going on with my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like the thrill of the chase?

What is it with guys and wanting what they can't have?It seems every guy I meet wants to go out with me so bad but as soon as they have me they don't want me anymore. I was dating this guy for a month and things were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to react after a breakup?

Today he broke up with me over the phone. He told me he didn't like me that way anymore, but even though we weren't going to be together that way he wanted to remain friends and continue hanging out (we have mutual...

Justanothergirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

My ex moved on before we broke up and I'm still single!

my ex basically started dating a new girl before he broke up with me (WAY cool, I know) and then maybe felt bad about it because he tried to go around telling people to not tell me about the new girl (too bad for him my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I really know that he loves me enough to not cheat on me again?

i was with my long distant ex for about 2 years before he cheated on me. we were good friends before we became a couple and after the break of 6 months now, we still talk just about everyday/or night, we still tell each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How am I supposed to survive cheating and lying?

I am 23 years old, good looking and also happy before. But I chose this disaster guy out of the lot. I met him 4 years back and we were friends and got into a relationship after 2 years. I am a very conservative person...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's going on in her head?

Me and my ex met up last week for a meal and to catch up. I drove her to a park she loves but when we got there it was closed so we went to a cafe instead. During the car trip we chatted away and had a laugh. We got to...

skreen23

Xper 4 Age: 48

I think I want him back.

My ex and I have been split for less than a week all over a lie he told me. All I wanted was a apology and he wouldn't give me that. Then he turns the tablesd on me and make me feel guilty about how I handled him lying....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Where do I stand?? FWB? GF? I'm so confused..and I still love him.

My boyfriend of 5 months and I had a fight and broke up because of it. (For more details check my previous question. Warning! Long read!) I found out I was pregnant..and I wanted to tell him..but he was being distant and...

brokengirl

Xper 5 Age: 38

Comparing myself to the new guy?

long story short, my ex and I still work together, broke up 10 months ago. recently we did the FWB thing and things (for me anyways) were AMAZING. she mentioned during our mutual breakup that shed be "open-minded" to us...

attractiveontarioguy

Xper 6 Age: 44