Anyways we basically started dating but in secret. It was great though. We got physical and went on dates and spent great times together. She was very affectionate and told me things that made me believe we had a real future.
Then one night the ex tells her he cheated on her for the whole 5 years they dated. She was crushed. She told me she didn't have the mental stability to handle our relationship and that she needed time to figure herself out. I told her I understood, wanted to be there for her and would help her anyway I could. I also told her I still cared for her and not to let what we had get tossed aside.
Since then we haven't spoke much. I went from getting calls and texts from her every day to absolutely nothing. I feel like I got used as her safety valve for her breakup.
Is she subtly breaking it off or does she really need some "me" time? Do I just let her make the next move?
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