Girls do this too. It's happening to me for no good reason. I'm quickly learning that there's nothing you can do about it. Try to take the high road and be the better person. It sucks a lot but it is what it is. For me, the ex is trying to change everything that happened between us to make it look like she never cared all that much, even saying that our break/pause was her 'breaking it off' with me. I didn't argue back because I know right now it wouldn't do any good. People will act how they will because it justifies them somehow.
Because he is hurt and emotionally underdeveloped. An emotionally mature person would recognize this pain and find a healthy way to deal with it. He is immature so he can't see the pain. All he does is reroute the pain to anger. It's easier than dealing with his part in the relationship falling apart.
It hurt him to make the decision I'm sure..but some guys want to always play the victim even though they are the one's that broke it off. That's the way they console themselves...It just makes them feel less of a bad person. It makes it worse if you took the break up well and was mature about and didn't cause a scene or blow up in his face. My advice is to ignore him and his actions, it will make him feel even more guilty =)
It takes so much less energy to hate someone then it does to get over them naturally.
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to say the truth, we are actually ignorant wussies. We are really too afraid to face the truth. Even though on the outside, we look like we are fine but in relality, every sight of your face actually stings our hearts. We want to hurt your feelings so you would suffer just as much even though deep down inside, we know doing this makes things worse. This means that the guy still have feelings for you and is trying to make you hurt as much as he is.
I guess it depends who did the breaking up. He might still have feelings for you, and not want to be anything other then boyfriend and girlfriend. I'd say that he resents you cause you were the one who did the breaking up (assuming it was you).
Human nature, some guys and girls act this way after a break up. Probably because when either they look at that person they feel hurt inside.
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