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I met a guy online on Tinder (yeah i know, not the best start) I have never been intested in that app b/c of the reputation for hook-ups only, but I gave it a shot and matched with this guy. He messaged me and within days asked for my number, a day later after texting, he invited me over for dinner. I was ecstatic since the guy is super cute and totally my type. I am 28 and he is 34, anyway so on my tinder profile I clearly stated that I am a single mom in my bio. I assumed he had read it and I showed up to the date assuming he already knew, well he didn't. He asked me if I had roommates, etc and I said no, that I lived alone with my daughter, then proceeded to ask him if he had actually read my bio and he said no, bc he was impressed by my pictures alone. He is really attracted to me since I am a Latina and he is American, it also helps to note here that I am pretty hot (not conceited just a fact).

I thought our date will go sour once he found out I had a daughter and just kinda relaxed and figured I could at least make a friend out of this, but no, he asked me questions about my daughter, including whether her father was involved (which he is not), and how he can't wait to become a father and have kids. Long story short, we had a great time and then started watching tv and I thought about leaving since I figured the being a mom thing turned him off, he tried to make a move and put his arm around me but I kinda did not know how to react so he stopped, then later we both got cold and got a blanket, eventually leading up to cuddling, it felt so good! We cuddled not like strangers on a first date but like as if we had known each other for a while and just laid there watching tv while he caressed my hair and face and eventually started holding my hand. Yes, we eventually felt so comfortable with each other, it lead to very sweet and slow touching to some really nice and comfortable sex.

Warning and appology in advance - essay ahead!

So I always seem to find myself attracted to guys who are not single. There is one guy in particular who I don't know very well but we really click, more so than I have with anyone before. He seems interested but has a gorgeous (and rediculously overprotective) girlfriend. I'm keeping it simple - I won't be that girl who comes in and destroys a relationship, I won't make a move until he is single - but he keeps making comments as though he is testing how I feel about him.

He seems like an amazing guy, is really sweet and easy to talk to but I just don't know how to take him or what to say when he does start saying things like 'you're my type of girl', or calling me 'bae' like he did the other day - at which point I immediately ended the conversation.

Honestly he is the rare kind of guy I feel like I can relax and be myself around, who I gueninely enjoy spending time with. He's seen me at my worst with no makeup and not showered in days (camping trips FTW!) and I didn't feel embarrassed or self concious for the first time in a very long time.

Girls - what would you do? Again, I don't want to be the girl on the side, or have him dump his girlfriend for me - if he wants to break up it needs to be between them, not because he 'found someone better' or who's to say he won't do it to me down the track?

Guys - what do you think he is trying to get across? Is he just trying to be a flirty f*ck boy and get laid or do you think he could be gueninely interested?