Search Results: initiating a break up

I’m dating two men and cheating on them both?

I’ve been in a long term relationship for 6 years (we broke up twice for a month or two each time) but are currently still together. I have been “dating” other men for a while now. I love him but I feel as though my needs...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend told me that we're not really compatible, what does he mean by that?

Okay, before you answer the question, read the description first. It's Important. So, basically my boyfriend broke up with me after a few weeks of being together, and the reason for him breaking up was because "We're not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is the guy I’m see (not exclusive) just friends with his ex?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month. He contacted his ex a few weeks ago. He couldn’t find something of his so he texted her & asked her if she had it, apparently she told him no, she didn’t have it. The next...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I just found out that my boyfriend left his ex because of me?

We haven't been dating long, but when we met we started off as just friends in a group. He never mentioned he has a girlfriend, nor did his friends. But I never asked either. Then few weeks after hanging out with them,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he lie to me?

my first boyfriend and I had a great relationship. After we broke up he mainly initiated it and it was kinda amicable but I would always be the one to text him afterwards. To be fair while we were together, he would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He stopped initiating conversation. What does this mean?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me 3 months after over 3 years of us being together. Since the breakup he has been messaging me every couple of days to check in and to ask how I'm going. Since breaking up we have also had...

carolitakaka

Xper 2 Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Why won't she look at me?

(Our backstory ) I fucked up with her and was not even communicating with her. I was being passive aggressive, throwing dirty looks at her because she wasn't chasing me. I felt hurt cos I wanted her to come after me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He broke his vow to not have sex til marriage. Does that mean he really loves me?

My boyfriend is a super devout Muslim. He was raised in a Muslim household. He prays. He doesn’t smoke or drink. He was planning on waiting for marriage to have sex. His parents even tried setting him up for arranged...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I tried to initiate a break up and my boyfriend did this?

So for the past few months I’ve been having urges to break up with my boyfriend and they’ve been getting stronger so I’m finally going through with it. However, whenever I start to initiate the conversation leading to the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

He wants me all to himself?

Me and this guy dated for a few months and he was my first boyfriend. We broke up because we go to two separate colleges. It was mostly him who initiated the breakup. And I was talking about going to a club near where he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Sensitive Boyfriend Driving Me Nuts?

Sensitive boyfriend so hurt that he stopped initiating contact and has taken a step back in our relationship because I showed signs of unloyalty and asked for a break and go sleep with women? I said that during an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy I've been speaking to over a month dumped me because his dad's girlfriend/stepmum 'evaluated' him and told him he's not ready for a relationship?

We met onTinder and haven't been able to meet IRLcuz corona. It lasted 5weeks. We had so much in common it was scary. We got on well, and both kept saying how the odds were so small to meet someone so similar to you....

hime889

Xper 4 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Why was he acting this way?

I was talking to my ex about going to the club and the reason we broke up is because of distance and we go to two separate colleges. It was mostly him who initiated the breakup. And I was talking about going to a club...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he still care?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he still care?

My ex and I had been texting because I broke nc. Please don’t judge me lol I was talking about going to the club and the reason we broke up is because of distance and we go to two separate colleges. It was mostly him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How can I get his attention?

After we broke up, my ex just wanted to be friends with benefits which hurt. I initiated most though he always texted back. He was a great boyfriend while we were together but after we broke up he changed. he just wasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does he feel this way?

Anonymous

(25-29)