I am a Muslim, and i will give you an honest opinion. First you have to understand the situation. In our religion we are not allowed to go on dating or have any relationship before marriage just because it always leads to sexual relationship and sex before marriage is extremely prohibited, infact it's one of the major sins. That's why in our religion we are advised to get married instead of dating or having relationship with out marriage.
Now a Muslim man who break vows and lead towards sex, there can be two possibilities. Either he is not a good man he just wants to fulfil his sexual needs, Or he is not strong in his faith.
A good man can also leads towards sex just because of human nature, but i will say a good Muslim will never do that whatever the situation may come.
As i m 28 years old and i am still virgin, as i m not married. So it doesn't mean that if i m not married i should have sex before marriage.
If you need any further help/opinion, just ask me, i will guide you as being a Muslim
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You're not Muslim and he propositioned you sexually when you weren't dating?
he's not as devout as he wants you to believe.
I'm Christian and my ex and I were very sexually active. My wife and I were too before we got married.
It doesn't mean he's not devout, just beware of how he's portraying himself
He does love you, a lot. Either that or he is not devout enough. I dated my friend and we agreed to not have sex until we marry. We are both religious but it got to a point where things were looking that way. Both of us respect our religion so we decided to call it off since he said it was hard for him not to want sex. Maybe I would consider dating and marriage again in about two years when I am almost done with my med school. However if your boyfriend does end up having sex with you instead of stopping himself, then that surely means he is really in love with you to the point of choosing you over his religious beliefs
As a Muslim woman, I'm gonna say it just means that he was weak. I don't think it makes him a bad person, but it's a pretty big deal for Muslims.
Sex before marriage is called 'Zina' in Islamic term. Not only is Zina forbidden but also there's a verse in the Qur'an that says 'and do not get close to Zina' meaning don't even do things that might end up in having sex.
I've seen it firsthand how severe the consequences of such actions can be. It's almost unbelievable.
I hope your boyfriend can get back to how he's been instead of letting this ruin him further.
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There is a very good possibility that he is just fooling around with you and will marry a Muslim woman.
No one can tell whether he loves you from what you posted, but if you can't tell that he does, then I'd assume he doesn't.Nope. It means he’s full of shit and his religion doesn’t mean a fucking thing to him
No he thinks your a slut worthy of 5 minutes of hard pumping but not to marry
Run away as fast as you can. Honor killings are a real thing
Can't say he can left you. If circumstances demands.
Yeah to me it sounds very positive
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It means he really likes sex
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