Ok so my boyfriend of nine months now keeps bringing up he is gonna do this and that with his future son I can't get pregnant the normal way?

[Tatitheunicorn]

So I have been with my boyfriend for nine months now.

He keeps bringing up the fact of when he has a son he will do this and that with him and teach him certain things.

He knows I am fixed and cannot get pregnant the normal way and I already have kids.

But why is it he keeps bringing that up to me is it because eventually he wants to try and have a kid or he views my kiddos as his kids.

He also talks a lot about our future together like he wants to help me learn how to ride dirt bikes and motorcycles and he has been helping me learn how to drive also.

[boggboss]

Surly these are questions u should be asking him no like its been 9 months why not speak to him with your concerns

[Tatitheunicorn]

I try to but he avoids it completely.

[boggboss]

Then sit him down and dont let he qe at gag can't know what he means by what he says and if u are coming upto a year together u guys need to be able to communicate if u want this to last

[Tatitheunicorn]

Alright

[DreamLife7]

Because he wants kids with someone else. Secondly, you've only known him for nine months yet you're thinking about kids? Girl where is your self respect? Too many women out here making stupid decisions

[Tatitheunicorn]

He was my best friend for going on three years I just recently got in an actual relationship nine months ago with him.

[DreamLife7]

Unless he puts a ring on your finger I wouldn't take him seriously. He's up to something.

[bowenw]

Can you still get pregnant in other ways? If so, you have nothing to worry about. If not there are still other options.

[Tatitheunicorn]

Yea the IVF treatments are an option.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the plot thickens with dreams and dirt bikes! It sounds like your man is a blend of forward-thinking and traditional dreaming, sprinkled with a dash of modern-day chivalry. By sharing his visions of fatherhood and future adventures, he's not just thinking out loud; he's subtly weaving you into the fabric of his life. The continuous mentioning of a future son could be his way of expressing a deeper longing for fatherhood, possibly hinting at exploring alternative paths to parenthood with you. On the flip side, incorporating your kids and you into his adventurous plans? That's his way of showing commitment, stepping into a ready-made family with both feet and an open heart. It seems he's already riding the wave of love and inclusivity, steering towards a shared future filled with love, bikes, and maybe a little bit of baby talk. Dive into those conversations! Who knows? You might just be co-pilots on an exhilarating journey. 😉

[Anonymous]

I guess he's thinking IVF because if you are in his future, that's a good sign. And yet he talks of his own son which you'll struggle to provide. Maybe he's not thought it through.

[Tatitheunicorn]

Maybe so

[laly520]

yes
he wants to try n have a son from u

[Tatitheunicorn]

Oh ok.