Search Results: leaving a guy for an ex

Ok so i started seeing this guy 5 years ago. Well he was great i fell hard for him, but ran because I got scared. So I ran back to an ex I had been with for 14 years. Well over the winter i started seeing this other guy again. We got close and started talking and making plans to move in together. On Valentine's Day this year he wanted me to come over that morning. Long story short I didn't go that morning because i was tired. I ended up going over there that evening. he's a big video gamer. He ignored me and i ended up leaving hours later. He never contacted me again. I contacted him a month ago. He told me he didn't want to see me again not now and probably never! I told him I respected that and left him alone. Well now he's contacting me and asking me to come over. I dont know what to think. I dont want to be a booty call. I love him and always will. What does this mean, what should i do?

At the moment doing voluntary work, my boss/employer had a birthday party two weeks back. he was saying things like so what do you think of him, I was like I do not know him :/. He said well you can get to know him.

I said do not put me on the spot, it was said infront of the whole crowd at the party. Then his colleague spoke to me , as I picked toppings off my pizza and he said so you do not like bacon, tomato. what do you like and we spoke for a bit.

Then he was joking about how the guy pretends he has a gf, when he does not. Then the boss said, do not get upset he is single do not worry. the colleague of his then said why would she be upset. I can tell he thinks he has no chance with me just by the look of his face.

i'll be honest he is not attractive and reminds me of an ex but I do like his personality as he is intelligent and funny and not rude to me. he also included me in signing the card for the guy whose birthday it was. he only asked me out of all the volunteers.

he also said it will not be awkward from now on as we can say hi on the stairs.

the employer also said he is missing opportunities with me isn't he, as when I got called out to sign the card the employer thought he was making a move. this guy is like 30 odd and will not make a move?

I see him everyday, and today saw him.

he seems embarrassed or weird around me now. he stares a lot but does not say a word. I know guys never want to seem creepy so maybe that's why he doesn't want to go for it.

I think he does like me, through the talking to me a lot also offering me cake and smiling.what do I do as I am leaving in 3 weeks time..