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Hello,

I have been on and off with a girl that I know I love. The problem is that I've never been or know someone that is addicted to drugs. I knew something wasn't right so I would break up with her just as things got bad. It wasn't until a month ago that she came clean and is getting help. She says she is better now but I have been fed so much BULL that it's hard to believe if what she is saying is true. She's been an addict for almost 10 years. Anti-depressants were her choice. I've learned so much in the last month by research and counseling. I am at a cross roads and would like a non bias opinion from all of you. She is strong minded now and wants to better herself. She is seeking help out of town and wants to stay there. Should I follow and risk everything "I" have worked hard for in my home town? Or should I let her free and let her find herself 1st.

I know that if I go there may be a disappointment, and that is a chance that I cannot afford but willing to take. If I don't follow I know the relationship is over because she can't come back to this place. Too much of a risk for a relapse.