My boyfriend acts like I'm his mom sometimes!

[Anonymous]

I say sometimes because he's usually dominant and like a normal guy. But every once in a while it's like he breaks down and he wants to be "babied" though he never admits it and it isn't an official thing between us, it just happens. He'll get really affectionate and want to cuddle a lot (during this phases he has, we spent days just cuddling in bed) he likes to suck on my breast and since he does it so much my breast started to lactate and I'm actually really "breastfeeding" my boyfriend. At first I thought it was a little odd, I looked it up and I see a lot of people do it too. He just does things like that,

Anyway he also gets really emotional and once he cried to me about how his mother left when he was small and his dad was very abusive to him. I always knew about it but I never knew it was so bad.

I'm not complaining at all, I love my boyfriend more than anything. He doesn't like when I suggest counseling to him. I know this relationship might sound really weird or creepy to you. I told my friend about this and she thinks it's unhealthy and he needs therapy.

What do you think ? What's wrong with him ?You think it's unhealthy ?

[toulouse]

well he's breaking down from truing to be 'dominant' all the time. which is not natural for him. everyone is more or less dominant, in various ways. no one is totally dominant. he's freaking out because he's not being himself. just like if you played the part of a submissive doormat-u might get into fist fights periodically-just for relief.. due to accumulated frustration.

[IHateMeganFox]

Yeah I would say he needs therapy. But when you said you always knew his mom left him and his dad was abusive but you never knew it was that bad... I'm sorry but how could that NOT be that bad? That's horrible.

[-Darling]

He needs therapy and you should help him get it. Good luck

[Anonymous]

He's not touching your breast because he wants to be a baby, he's doing it because it turns him on.

I like to cuddle a lot... though sucking until you lactate is a little strange... but I know some guys that obsessed with breast..

[edgyfox]

It's not weird or creepy. It's not unhealthy it just shows that people have different emotions.

[TrickyNickn]

Umm if this is real, which I highly doubt, then he has serious psychological issues and needs some counseling. And by the way you'd need to be on hormones prescribed by your doctor for you to lactate without having given birth.

[cleako]

+1 on the therapy.

[Anonymous]

Therapy!