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am a woman and there is a woman who works with me. From day one at the company, she has given me a hard time. So much so that I nearly laid a complaint against her as she seemed to try and push all my buttons and it never ended. A couple of months later after having a few decent conversations with her, she invited me to her birthday. It was a big birthday and she didn't invite people from the office I thought she would. These were really close friends although they weren't invited and I was but I wasn't close with her.

Anyway, my issue is that one day I walked into a room a work that she was in and there was suddenly this weird energy between us. I have never experienced it before so i'm not sure what to call it but we both instantly looked at each other. The thing that gets to me is that all the people I was close to have turned on me and it seems to be her doing.

We had a conversation a few months ago where I told her I wasn't into her sexually because one of her friends told her i was for some reason, but she always seems to want to be close to me etc. The thing that really upsets me is that whenever I ask her out to do stuff, she declines. I understand that she has a child but she always has an excuse. I know that she has social anxiety but she never even makes the effort to message me which I find odd but she will message other people in the office. I am so confused because I get the distinct impression that she is bisexual and all the rumours and distance is because I told her I wasn't into her but I just don't understand why she would then decline my invitations? This week so was very cold like I have never seen before and I felt it was because I told her I was into this one guy. Working with her is a nightmare because people are now being blatantly rude to me because of her. Not sure what she is saying. Please offer some perspective if you can as I am too afraid to confront her out of fear she will make me look silly and spread further rumours.