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I’m 18 and since I was a little girl my mother’s little brother was always here for me while my dad was more focused on his career. My uncle was a student when I was a child but he taught me how to read, to swim, to ride a bike, and he bought me my first iPhone when he started his business, my mom even told me that he changed my diapers more than her and he even take me sometimes on trips when he can. He’s only 17 years older than me but I feel that he was more present on my life than my father. And I still remember that he was the only one that used to read me some fairy tails while my parents never did that. Even If he was handsome and popular he always preferred to spend time with me, to teach me new things instead of partying with his friends in college. When I was asked who I love more after my mother I accidentally said my uncle and I felt bad because I thought that I should love my dad more, even if he was absent but I noticed that my uncle was more here for me than him. Isn’t it weird?

We've been practically sisters since we met back in kindergarten. We're polar opposites who sometimes have a hard time understanding each other, but nevertheless we love each other unconditionally. However, since about a year ago, it seems like she's been struggling with sexuality issues, but I'm not sure. I don't even know how I can bring up my concern, because whether I'm right or wrong I think I could offend her. This concern of mine started one day when we were skyping and she started telling me about this gorgeous female friend whom she claimed she admires and can't stop thinking about. She tried to explain further but stopped, clearly feeling uncomfortable or worried. I wanted to try to understand the situation, whether she just admired this girl or had feelings for her, but I didn't know how to talk to her about it. After that, she never brought up the girl again and neither did I. Today, she facetimes me and starts bawling immediately, telling me about her roommate she always hangs out with. Apparently they used to hang out all the time, but now this chick has started hanging out with this other chick, and this other chick is, I quote, "changing" chick 1 to be more stylish and extroverted. On the other hand, my sporty, introverted friend says she feels left out and so jealous that she can't sleep. It seems to be bothering her so much - I mean, excessively! My friend even feels the urge to check her roommate's location when she's out with chick 2. I can't understand what's happening to my girl. I had my share of drama back in middle school and high school, but since I started going to college most of my friends have been guys and the only female friends I do have aren't, you know, surrounded by girl drama, so I don't know how to give her the right advice. I told her she should talk to her friend - without making it too dramatic, but she says she doesn't want to. Then I told her that she needs to find more loyal friends, which I don't think helped at all...