I feel bad because I love my uncle more than my dad. is it bad?

[Anonymous]

I’m 18 and since I was a little girl my mother’s little brother was always here for me while my dad was more focused on his career. My uncle was a student when I was a child but he taught me how to read, to swim, to ride a bike, and he bought me my first iPhone when he started his business, my mom even told me that he changed my diapers more than her and he even take me sometimes on trips when he can. He’s only 17 years older than me but I feel that he was more present on my life than my father. And I still remember that he was the only one that used to read me some fairy tails while my parents never did that. Even If he was handsome and popular he always preferred to spend time with me, to teach me new things instead of partying with his friends in college. When I was asked who I love more after my mother I accidentally said my uncle and I felt bad because I thought that I should love my dad more, even if he was absent but I noticed that my uncle was more here for me than him. Isn’t it weird?

It’s normal since he was more present

Nah. A father should always come first

[AynonOMouse]

It is understandable, and that is one of the reasons why women should contribute more for their families so the man could spend more time at home with his kids instead of being so focused on making money to support the family that he rarely gets to see.
Too often men are more like ATMs for their family but don't get to feel love and appreciation and miss out on much of their kids' lives and special events growing up.

[Massageman]

While it's not typical, it's good that you had a decent "father figure" , even if he wasn't your actual father.

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

I voted A.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[RobLovesDemi9277]

Maybe your uncle is your father and your father your non biological father. Maybe your father couldn't have kids so asked him to be the donor to have you. In this crazy world who knows anything is possible. Or you might not be your father's biological kid you could be somebody else's that your mom had an affair with on your dad and that's why he always seemed somewhat distant to you. Again anything is possible

[thebigc]

I mean a father is a figure as much as they are a biological parent. I think it speaks volumes about your uncle's character.

[Zama6]

its not bad at all
you can love your uncle more than your father
nothing wrong
but also you should love your father too

[esotericstory]

I like my uncles better too, my dad is a fucking cunt.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Do you wanna sex with your uncool?

[donotblockme]

haha i fking hate my father, its normal

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

Its not bad

[19irish76]

That’s hurtful