If you Went back with an Ex, And things Were Not The Same in the "Magical Department,(Anything Special) Would you Stay or Opt Out Again?

[Paris13]

[Chevy1_kb]

Me and my ex only sleep together just friends with benifits but we don't like each other he's not someone I would get back with he's not my type plus he cheats and lies fk that a went through shit to get my feelings away for him now my feelings are gone and we forgot bad shit we are able to be friends without loving feelings when around each other he does have a girlfriend I was told aswel she has caught us talking to and seen I was at his but it was just a friendly visit we did sleep together I ended up staying at his two nights that's what happens mostly but not always however we forgot about the past don't care who he goes out with I'm fine talking to him about his girlfriend how it's all going without shedding a tear anymore for two years not mykinda guy to have a relationship with no more heartache am fine alone loving my favourite person Uma Thurman better happier feeling with smiles knowing she's alive and well is good enough for me cause a won't get her but I do feel better now that I don't love him anymore

[Paris13]

Wow... xx

[Chevy1_kb]

what way do mean wow lol I'm no saying that in a cheeky way just asking xx

[avery58]

If we still have feelings for each other and we both feel comfortable with resuming the relationship, we could try it for a while and see where it goes. It'd never be as magical as when we first met anyway, because those feelings come precisely from first meeting and getting to know each other/date. As the relationship progresses those feelings usually settle into something more of a routine and the excitement fades, and that's usually when the true commitment comes.

[sawno]

For me thats different, sure the initial excitement and thrill may not be there the second time but the true love and connection I care about. The layer that is more than just infatuation would be there. And thats the one I am after. So for me it would be very likely to be as amazing as the first time round if we didn't grow apart to much in the meantime.

[Paris13]

Thank You and Maybe Too Because Nearly Two years back, I Called it Quits. But the Love and Bonding is Still There with Loving Care. xxoo

[sawno]

If I get back with my ex I expect that actually. Or more accurately I expect it to either be right as it used to be very quickly or take time to build back up. We had a relationship so strong that it defied most peoples understanding of the way reality works so magical is an understatement. But I think we got there trough a true bond.

So if its not magical again with her from the getgo i'd stay. she's someone worth fighting for so if the chance came around i'd do everything in my power to make it work and build what we had back up.

The magical stuff would come back with time.

[Paris13]

Thank You so Much. xxoo

[Dantec2024]

I would leave the second I stop feeling anything. I made the mistake of not leaving after she told me she wanted to sleep around all because we watched the ultimatum on Netflix. I say this because she asked for a break and it lasted about two weeks but when we "got back together" it wasn't the same anymore. I didn't feel that "spark" it was just dull and boring.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I would NEVER go back to an ex Paris. I also make that very clear at the beginning of a relationship.

[Paris13]

Special Though, Tommy. lolxx

[TommyMountainFigure]

The thing is Paris, if you make it known right at the start, you know how important to them you are, because they know if they muck it up that's it, no going back.. If they don't act like they care? You know from the start it means little to them!

[TommyMountainFigure]

>:D< Paris

[menina]

I wouldn't go back to an ex, but if I did in this case I would break up again for good.

[Paris13]

Special Bond Though, girl. xx

[menina]

Yeah, some former couples have that.

[AviatorTom]

Going back to an ex is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it.

[Paris13]

Still... lolxx

[Marcia1218]

I never had an ex so I can't answer that. I've been with my husband since high-school, Married 9yrs.

[Paris13]

Lovely!!! xx

[Likes2drive]

Going back to an ex never usually works and it’s the same problems from before that will resurface again so there’s no point

[OlderAndWiser]

Reunions almost always fail for the same reason that it failed initially. The only difference is that the reunion fails quicker.

[Likes2drive]

@OlderAndWiser oh yeah much quicker

[Paris13]

Some, hun, I Agree, Big Guy. lolxx

[fuddly]

Great question

Or if you got back together and the s. x was good

But just not happy

What you would do?
More heartbreak?
All over again?

[Paris13]

Confusing. lolxx

[fuddly]

As i get older, i have only fond memories of ex's

And I'd be happy to get back... What with the state of my current relationship

Having said that, i imagine it would only be a mistake, but it could be a happy mistake for a few nights🙂

👍

[Surely]

Never reconnected with an ex. So I can’t answer. Question sounds like possibly someone that I know.

[Paris13]

Ohhhyhh Surely, HI! lolxx

[RedInnocent69]

Depends why I opted out in the first place. If it’s worse somehow, then yeah, I don’t think I’d stay.

[Paris13]

Um... lol!!! xx

[Mark987]

I would never go back to an ex, I have had hook ups after breaking up.

[Paris13]

Thanks. xx

[Wiredone]

I've left them for a reason. I would never go back

[Paris13]

Ohhhhhhh Okay... xx

[noohair]

I never go backwards in my life. I don't grow in the past.

[Paris13]

Damn MY HEART. lolxx

[Pterodon]

I’m not stupid enough to get back with an ex for any reason

[Paris13]

Ahhhhh HI!!! lolxx

[Anonymous]

I would only go back with an ex for a friends with benefits relationship. So if we aren't satisfying each other; what is the point?

[Paris13]

Not those Kinds of Benefits. lolxx

[Opinion Owner]

What is more magical than sex?

[Princess2552]

I don't have an ex boyfriend so no

[Paris13]

Thanks. xx

[Princess2552]

no prob girlfriend :)

[DJB72]

They're my "ex" for a reason...

[Paris13]

Not THis Season. lolxx

[DJB72]

It's over 20 years since I broke up with someone. Not in touch with her. Still sometimes hear from my first girlfriend from over 30 years ago. From that relationship it couldn't be worse - we were both "inexperienced"...

[DextroShade]

She would be sex only, never again in consideration for a serious relationship.

[Paris13]

lol Never That. lolxx

[thegreenyogi]

Opt out immediately. Xx

[Paris13]

lol Looks Like Friends toiThe Ends, girl. xx

[Anonymous]

Their an ex for a good reason

[Paris13]

Thanks. Ms. Pink. xx

[NathanDavis]

I don't go back to no exes...

[nawtee_me]

Is it all about the sex?

[Paris13]

Sexting, @nawtee_me ? lolxx