If you Went back with an Ex, And things Were Not The Same in the "Magical Department,(Anything Special) Would you Stay or Opt Out Again?

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Chevy1_kb · Accepted Answer

Me and my ex only sleep together just friends with benifits but we don't like each other he's not someone I would get back with he's not my type plus he cheats and lies fk that a went through shit to get my feelings away for him now my feelings are gone and we forgot bad shit we are able to be friends without loving feelings when around each other he does have a girlfriend I was told aswel she has caught us talking to and seen I was at his but it was just a friendly visit we did sleep together I ended up staying at his two nights that's what happens mostly but not always however we forgot about the past don't care who he goes out with I'm fine talking to him about his girlfriend how it's all going without shedding a tear anymore for two years not mykinda guy to have a relationship with no more heartache am fine alone loving my favourite person Uma Thurman better happier feeling with smiles knowing she's alive and well is good enough for me cause a won't get her but I do feel better now that I don't love him anymore

avery58 · Accepted Answer

If we still have feelings for each other and we both feel comfortable with resuming the relationship, we could try it for a while and see where it goes. It'd never be as magical as when we first met anyway, because those feelings come precisely from first meeting and getting to know each other/date. As the relationship progresses those feelings usually settle into something more of a routine and the excitement fades, and that's usually when the true commitment comes.

sawno · Accepted Answer

If I get back with my ex I expect that actually. Or more accurately I expect it to either be right as it used to be very quickly or take time to build back up. We had a relationship so strong that it defied most peoples understanding of the way reality works so magical is an understatement. But I think we got there trough a true bond.

So if its not magical again with her from the getgo i'd stay. she's someone worth fighting for so if the chance came around i'd do everything in my power to make it work and build what we had back up.

The magical stuff would come back with time.

Dantec2024 · Accepted Answer

I would leave the second I stop feeling anything. I made the mistake of not leaving after she told me she wanted to sleep around all because we watched the ultimatum on Netflix. I say this because she asked for a break and it lasted about two weeks but when we "got back together" it wasn't the same anymore. I didn't feel that "spark" it was just dull and boring.

osmanthus · Answer

I'm unsure what you mean by 'magical department'. I'm going to guess that it's the one thing the couple broke up over.

A lot can go wrong in any kind of relationship, much like a mortgage sworn off to pay for the next however many years one signed for it. Nevertheless, people engage in, and some go onto formalize (legalize), relationships (marriage or other). Personally, in most cases, dependent on the circumstances and person, I do not revisit an ex friend, partner, etc. unless I have some manner of business to tie up, conclude, or other that isn't in any way about feeling the same about this ex as I did before. For obvious reasons, such as having a child by the ex, there can exist lingering fondness or other emotions for the ex that could give way to reason to give the relationship another try.

I can't say for sure whether I would stay or opt out again, unless I were in that situation.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I would NEVER go back to an ex Paris. I also make that very clear at the beginning of a relationship.

menina · Answer

I wouldn't go back to an ex, but if I did in this case I would break up again for good.

AviatorTom · Answer

Going back to an ex is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it.

Marcia1218 · Answer

I never had an ex so I can't answer that. I've been with my husband since high-school, Married 9yrs.

Surely · Answer

Never reconnected with an ex. So I can’t answer. Question sounds like possibly someone that I know.

Likes2drive · Answer

Going back to an ex never usually works and it’s the same problems from before that will resurface again so there’s no point

fuddly · Answer

Great question Or if you got back together and the s. x was good  But just not happy What you would do? More heartbreak? All over again?

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Depends why I opted out in the first place. If it’s worse somehow, then yeah, I don’t think I’d stay.

Justneedtokno · Answer

I would do my best to communicate effectively and also do better with active listening like write it down if I could see it maybe it’ll become more concrete like I do now. I would try to open up more. Not trying to think for them so I wouldn’t get hurt and still hurt myself in the end.
Taking accountability I was in a relationship with myself not really with anyone holding onto the idea of someone.
I don’t think I’ve have a X

Mark987 · Answer

I would never go back to an ex, I have had hook ups after breaking up.

Wiredone · Answer

I've left them for a reason. I would never go back

noohair · Answer

I never go backwards in my life. I don't grow in the past.

Pterodon · Answer

I’m not stupid enough to get back with an ex for any reason

Anonymous · Answer

I would only go back with an ex for a friends with benefits relationship. So if we aren't satisfying each other; what is the point?

Princess2552 · Answer

I don't have an ex boyfriend so no

thegreenyogi · Answer

Opt out immediately. Xx

DJB72 · Answer

They're my "ex" for a reason...

DextroShade · Answer

She would be sex only, never again in consideration for a serious relationship.

MikeyPH · Answer

If I go back there's obviously a deeper reason behind it all so I would at least speak up and see if things can be resolved before dropping them again!

Anonymous · Answer

Their an ex for a good reason

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't go back to no exes...

nawtee_me · Answer

Is it all about the sex?

msc545 · Answer

An ex is an ex for a reason.

CubaPirate · Answer

All aboard and anchors ⚓ away

humblelion010 · Answer

If I still have feelings, I can.

dinojames22 · Answer

Are we going to hogwarts?

MsBrie · Answer

Opt out.

Dou1994 · Answer

You mean not opt in? I was a wreck.

lildkman1010 · Answer

No because I’m too small

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