Polls: Family & Friends

I feel that a child deserves both parents in their lives depending on the situation of course and if it’s fixable but you can treat a child with all you and others give but there’s a high chance they will feel that they are missing a huge factory in their live and feel a bit lonely. Depending on if the child is a he/she each parent can teach their child things and relate to them more and I’m sure a child would prefer having certain talks depending on which parent it is.

My grandma took me once, along with my sister and my cousin. I was having a good time until Ursula came out. Then we had to leave because I was inconsolable.

So I have social anxiety and struggle making friends and stuff.. but around friends, I'm really loud and REALLY hyper and like I thrive on group calls with a sht ton of people i know.. and if strangers join than I am good with that, but if I'm one on one call with a stranger and their friend who is also my friend is there than I can't do it.

I do best at socializing when I have control.. like where I'm the one with the friends and new person joins. But can't do it when I'm the new person that joins a friend group where someone else knows everyone.. and I know only like 2 people.

I play jackbox party on this group often and ts really fun in the moment and I get energetic and have a blast wtih about 8 people on it.. but not sure if its my anxiety or if I'm introverted but I get kinda sick of dealing with humans... and get all anxious and worry they hate me.. and maybe my anxiety makes me tired I don't know.. but later when I'm alone, I get stuck in my head and I hate it and crave socialization and need to talk to others and have fun for validation...

but when I'm around others, eventually I get sick of it.

After a social event I'm drained.. but...
Am I drained from talking to others before? or am I drained cause I'm not talking to people anymore?

help me.. please I also can't do quiet activities like reading or writing cause I get really bored and drained out... like I can't handle it and it takes too long..

We're engaged and my future in-laws have always been cool with me from the start. They get along great with their son-in-law and other daughter-in-law too.

This is my first and only time I've felt welcomed and like a member in the family. With my past two bfs, both of the mother hated me. I had to put up with their nasty attitudes so too long. Finally... no more awkward conversations with fake smile, no more limiting myself what to say, no more listening to an ''My son's ex girlfriend was great'' comparison, no more hypocrisy, etc.

Are good, kind in-laws like a needle in the haystack?

In 2012, my parents went to my nannas house and when they came back they said that my stepgrandad (?) had a sore shoulder and felt sick. I'd done a first aid course earlier that year and the guy who ran it said those were signs of a heart attack. I doubted it though because he had other health conditions and felt sick a lot of the time and didn't end up saying anything. At the time I told my dad and brother I regretted not saying anything. My nanna found out last year and thinks I intentionally didn't say anything and is saying I murdered him.

I definitely didn't have bad intentions and I was sorry at the time but didn't apologize because she was traumatized by what happened and thought it'd make her feel worse.

Should I apologize now or is it too late?
(by the way I'm a sociopath and I don't want her to think I'm only doing it now because she found out and I'm terminal)

I’ve always wanted a group of girl friends, but I’ve never really had one. I've had some close girl friends here and there, but I’ve always had a ton of guy friends. Some of them wanted to date me or have sex with me, but ultimately I’ve always been surrounded by swarms of guys. I’ve noticed that some girls didn’t like me because their boyfriends/exes were friendly towards me. There were also some girls who were just jealous of all the male attention I got, and so they made up rumors and called me a slut. I try to be friendly but I just don’t seem to be any good at making girl friends.

If you don't get along with your in-laws, can having a child bring peace and end the acrimony?

My mother is being a hypocrite to my boyfriend and he can sense fake people from miles away. He doesn't like her either for how she treated (unfairly) him in the past. They are on each other's fb contact list only because of me. I'm worried because we're getting married in the near future and I'm already imagining my mother's insincere smile and fake blessings. I'd rather get no approval (if it's not sincere) than see her just doing it out of resignation, always thinking he's not good enough.

I've heard before that a grandchild can bring miracles, settle past disputes between in-laws and promote permanent peace. How true is that? Or am I a hopeless, delusional dreamer and is not possible?