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I came across a really offense prank video recently. The guy in the video decided to prank his girlfriend by calling her ugly. She started crying & responded by saying, "well y would u even want to be together with me if you don't find me attractive?" He responded by saying, "I've always dated girls for personality, I have unfortunately never gotten the chance to date anyone who is hot", but of course this was all a lie for the prank, in reality he does think of her as the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and is in fact the very reason he asked her out from the beginning. He concluded the video by saying this to her in an attempt to make her feel better (she was still pretty mad at him tho)
Now of course the video got a lot of backlash in the comments, saying that he had gone way too far even if it all wasn't true. I am also quite offended, but for a much different reason. When she said "y r u even with me if you don't find me attractive" I don't think she realized that this statement basically claims that anyone who is ugly, or even just average looking in real life, has no chance in getting a relationship. I know for fact that Im ugly. This isn't just a matter of bad self esteem anymore, I legitimately look like an fn swamp-thing/drunken zombie compared to the average girl of today. The only possible way that I could ever get a boyfriend, is if he loved girls for personality only. According to this video & current media ingeneral, the idea of finding an individual appealing, solely based on what's inside just doesn't happen. Sorry to be hypocritical, but I contribute to this possible stereotype, but most likely inevitable part of being human. I have only ever had a crush on a cute boy. Never have I had a crush on someone with average appearance, yet somehow I feel entitled to attention from somebody gorgious, with no more then an average complection myself. It just doesn't work. Pls add to the poll, or comment below about ur thoughts. Thanks.

So me and this guy have recently been talking again, we talked a year and a bit ago and lets just say we argued a lot and a lot of things happened lol, we had stuff in common and he was career oriented. He recently broke up with his ex when we first started talking and he said he was looking for anything at the time. We talked for 5 months and then we didn't talk for awhile and he blocked me on all social media. Then one time I saw him on another dating site and messaged him basically saying I missed him. Then he messaged me on social media saying he got my messaged. We talked for a bit and last thing he said my questions were stupid..

Then I decided to message him a day ago saying I was going to his city he recently moved to for work. I asked if he wanted to meet. He said sure and what I would want to do.. then I avoided him. He started asking me random questions why I messaged him and whats new with me.. (he was bored at work I think) So I said I can't go to the city, plans fell through. Then we got back to our old conversation. (almost argued again about something else) Then I said if your're the guy you said you are then lets meet and I'll give you another chance and prove to me. He said he isn't going to meet to prove anything. I said I want to meet you.. anyways He told me he knows what he wants to do in life etc and wants to find the girl. he's not someone who wants to hook up. He is finding a girl to fall in love with and wants to get married at a certain age.. He also said he's the guy that goes with the flow. If they end up in bed if nothing then ok. I also mentioned that I tried to give him a chance before and at the time he broke up with his ex. He said people need time. During our convo he said get your butt too ___ and see me. there's more too it but thats the just of it. he works a lot and doesn't come to this city where he is originally from often. (where I am as well) He isn't having much luck on dating sites. I really liked this guy as well.