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I met this girl in the University. She is a bit shy person but I was attracted by her beauty the first time I met her around. She was eating her lunch alone and so I approached her to be friends. She was very kind and I did not expect it was the start of our closeness together.

Other than that, I find her hardworking person and smart and even has a nice voice to hear.
The only thing I maybe did not like about her is she is too shy but she is damn loyal and has a good heart.

I fell in love with her and started to ask her out to be my girlfriend. She was crying and even hugged and say yes. I took her out to real dates and even make her very happy every second I am with her. After six months of our relationship, I was asking to sleep with her but she said she is not yet ready and felt embarrassed. I asked her if she was still a virgin and she said “she is not anymore “ she had sex once to his secret boyfriend one year ago , he did not have chance to introduce him to her family because of strictness. And she thought that ex boyfriend she had was serious but he was only after her virginity.

i don’t know how I feel after that confession, I love her but she is not virgin anymore. Should I take this girl seriously or even considering her marrying? Or not.

(Please vote below and have your comments )

If you are in a relationship long enough to get beyond the initial honeymoon phase, you will have conflict with your significant other. It is inevitable. It does not mean that you have a weak relationship; it means that you have a normal relationship.

The test of a good relationship is not whether you have conflict but how you handle it when it arises. I usually withdraw from the conflict and become quiet until we are both ready to discuss things rather than argue. Sometimes, that takes thirty minutes and sometimes it takes several hours or overnight. If it is overnight, when I go to bed, I snuggle up to my girlfriend, put my arms around her and say something like, "I'm still angry but I haven't stopped loving you." I think that helps to keep the conflict in perspective and it makes it easier for me to go to sleep.

So. . . how do you respond when you and your SO have conflict?