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Because whenever people go on a date, most often than not they tend to show ONLY their best-viewed-from-this-angle side. Well, if you want to impress someone I guess that's the only way to go.

Sometimes some people even create an 'alter ego' they wear during a date so that they would look promising and get as much Attractiveness Points as possible in one night. All of this in order to score a next date and/or get them to lay with you.

Whereas officially just hanging out with somebody and removing all those girl-and-boy-on-a-date rules and games would mean they could comfortably have fun and talk without being too self conscious all the time.

Oh sure, there's the risk of falling on the friendzone or being just a buddy, but wouldn't that be a great foundation to lay in a relationship (if you're trying to be in one)?

Falling in love with a pre-calculated persona that was just assembled on a critical moment before the date, all puffed up to fit your needs, and then realizing their faults and incompatibility with you afterwards when you guys are together for some X number of dates.

OR

Being interested and comfortable with someone who just wants to be with you and start out maybe just as friends, having fun with no rules and games, without any scheduled dates and restrictions, and then maybe entertain the thought of being together after making sure you guys are fit and meant to be for each other.