Search Results: i don't show i care for her

I've written about this before but i'm puzzled by his behavior. I thought he was interested, but I'm not sure anymore. His boss told him to stay out of my area. He came anyway last week when our mutual guy friend was there. I see him when he comes in and when he leaves work now. He flirts at those times. The rest of the night I dont see him. It seems like if he liked me then he would rebel a little and make an effort to see me or say hi! He could wait for me after work since we get off at the same time but he doesn't or he could have given me his number. When I asked him why he didn'tjust say "hello" and he said he is busy with work. He has yet to tell me he got banned from my area. I just feel like if he cared then he could do something. It was different before he got banned from my area. Now I don't know where I stand at all. And no one knows why he got banned from my area. It happened after he showed an interest in me. It has all changed now.

the stereotypye is that guys r sloppy and dont care about their appearance or grooming, e. g. wearing sweats and a hoodie and calling it a day. but do guys feel insecure about their weight, hair, face, clothes etc as much as women but dont show it?