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I worked in bars around the world and always my most valued customers were older women but if a younger lady, weather she was attractive or not, come into the venue. no matter how I approached them or greeted them i would always get girls pulling that www gross face, or stay away you creep. I would ask friends to observe me while I worked and all of them were stunned by what I would show them. typically younger women.
I don't want the question answered based on your experience in a night club. people go there to get laid and dance so there is a good chance you will be surrounded by creeps.

Last year I saw this girl and I instantly wanted to get to know her. She was taken so I backed off. She wanted to get a fake ID, I showed her mine and got her in contact with my roommate who was ordering some. Instead of asking my roommate questions she would text me, which I took as her looking for an excuse to talk to me. When she had been single for a month I invited her to my fraternity formal. We talked, danced, and I was a huge gentleman. At the bar she slipped backwards into the wall and got a cut on her back, she was drunk and "browning-out." We went back to her place where I patched her up and gave her a back massage. However she refused to cuddle, stopped my advances and kept telling me to go out and hook up with someone. I told her I didn't want to and that I wasn't into hooking up with strangers. I told her if she wanted me to leave I would have no problem and she said I should stay only to hint at me to leave later. We talked and slept on/next to each other until 4am. She wanted to study with me the next day but I flaked because I was kinda put off by her asking me to leave so many times the night before. We texted for 2 weeks after that where it was awesome and she thought I was hilarious. We would also play soccer/flirt together on the weekends. 3 weeks early I asked to go out with me on St. Pattys and she agreed. But she asked if it was a date thing, it was, and she said it sounded cool and ended the text with a smiley face. We wound up studying and we flirted hard and I asked her what she remembered from the formal, she remembered the massage and a few other things. Spring break rolled up the week before St Patty's and I was really sick and I didn't text her at all that week. That's when she would rarely text back and flaked on St Pattys. This year I don't see her on campus so I text her inviting her to catch up over sushi. She says she's sick and she would get back to me and called me bud. 1 month later we don't text and simply greet eachother now.

I met this girl at work three or four months ago and thought she was really cute. Eventually during some free time at work she came over and we started talking to each other. She is from Honduras and speaks Spanish, so there is a bit of a language barrier, but I speak passable Spanish. Anyways, she asked me if I had a wife, or a girlfriend, or anything and I told her no. When I asked her the same she said she had a boyfriend in Honduras. This was in the June-July area of time.

After that we spoke every once in awhile, but it was never anything deep or meaningful, just "Hey how are you?" and stuff. Anyways, last weekend a different coworker (F) was having a party. The Honduran girl (S) had mentioned it before and asked if I was going and I had told her no because I had a friend's birthday party to go to.

The night of the party rolls around and F asked I was going to go and I said probably not, I have a different party to go to first at least, but I might show up later. Then she asked S if she was still coming and she said no, she didn't feel like it. So, I texted her and asked if she really wasn't going. She said she didn't think so. So, I responded that was too bad. She asked if I was going and I said that I was probably going to show up a bit later, the other party was kind of far away and apparently costume themed which I wasn't prepared for. She then said "Well, if you're going then I will go."

I meet up with her at the party and talk to her on and off through the night. Eventually people start leaving and going to bed, etc, and I notice the guys she had come to the party with had gone. Apparently they had gotten bored and went to go dance at a bar or something. I offered her a ride home and she accepted. We got to her house, I got out of the car to walk her to the door, and when I hugged her goodbye I went to pull back and then she pulled me back in and kissed me.

So the question: what do I do? See poll and/or comment.