Will this girl say yes or no to a date?

[jorden_rowrow]

In the past i've had bad luck with girls. But i feel like with every girl that I've tried to go out with a date that i've improved a little. But this girl i met in my class around early October and we started to talk because of a an assignment she had a question on. I added her on fb and over the next week or so she started to im me about school work and questions and stuff. After her questions i steered the convo for more personal stuff and we've talked here and there. Then in class after it ends we walk to our cars together and things and she waits for me. Next about 2 weeks ago i'll say mid way through October we had a 5 hour convo online about everything. She imed me about school and then we started to talk about tv shows and we joke around with each other. She laughs at my jokes through texts and things. So i took this as a good sign so I asked her if she wanted to go to a basketball game with me because I had 4 tickets and I said that she could invite a friend. At first she said that was the night she was going bar hopping with her friends because it was her birthday. However, the next day she told me that she was able to change the plans and she'll go out with her friends another weekend to celebrate her birthday. Now i'm not sure if she lied before or she actually changed her plans but she went. I met her friend and we had a good time. Now i've been trying to step it up a little. I've text her good luck in the morning and good luck at work. And just recently i sent her a funny article about her favorite sport and she said that was really funny. I want to ask her out on tuesday? Will she say yes or is she just being nice because were in the same class?

[Xelebrum]

It sounds that she's interested in you, so act now before she loses that interest. Next time you talk to her, have one of those good conversations that you two normally have and then casually ask her out 1 on 1. Ask her what her plans are for the rest of the week or the weekend, and then just ask if she would like to go out sometime like how you asked her if she wanted to go to the basketball game.

Very important: Do NOT use the words "hang out" or "chill." Be a man, say what you really mean, and ask if she wants to GO out because only boys ask a girl to "hang out" or "chill."

[jorden_rowrow]

i already asked her to the basketball game. We went already. I want to ask her to dinner

[Xelebrum]

I know you already asked her to the game, I'm saying to ask her out on a date in the same manner that you asked her to the game. And make it clear that you're asking her out on a DATE. If you don't, she'll think that you two are going out as friends and will feel both uncomfortable and annoyed when you attempt to flirt with her.

[jorden_rowrow]

well when i asked her first she said she had something important to do with her friends. Maybe you can message me privately to help me come up with a good strategy

[Anonymous]

You won't know until you ask, and even then she might still flake out. If you want it, go for it... Stop twiddling your thumbs.

[jorden_rowrow]

I plan on it for Tuesday when I see her next

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing is certain if life, you just try shit and pick yourself and dust yourself off if you fall on your face.

[Opinion Owner]

*pick yourself up

[indigoblue]

She seems keen. Lifes to short to give a shit. Go for it... you never know, she could be the one you mary

[Mgoods]

If she likes you, she'll say yes. You won't know, until you ask.

[jorden_rowrow]

do you think she likes me? I mean it's hard to guess if you don't know her. But from what i've told you?

[Mgoods]

She seems to have some interest in you, yes. Whether or not it's of a romantic nature, one can't be sure, just yet.

[jorden_rowrow]

that's all i ask for. I'm not asking her to be my girlfriend just say yes to a date

[Mgoods]

Well, go for it! I don't see any obvious signs that it might not be a good idea.

[jorden_rowrow]

I'm just worried that she might say no because I do like her. I just don't know if she's being nice or there's an actual change?

[Mgoods]

If she says no, then you'll know where you stand. That's all that will happen. You won't die, it's not as big of a deal as it seems. Just do it!

[Anonymous]

My 8 ball says yes... oh no it just switched to try again later

[cmdorun]

I think you should ask her out.