Girls how would I know if she will say yes?

[GreatSworl]

Is there any tell tale signs that assure a 100% chance that the girl you asking out will say yes? I would like to hear from you guys how will you act if you want that guy to ask you out?

[GoingTheDistance]

So a couple of takes on this, if you ever try online dating, send a small message asking a question about something on her bio. If she replies, that’s as good as it gets, ask her there and then, they’ll either say yes, continue talking which means maybe but they want to get to know you better or not reply after that. In person, much more complicated as we often look into things that aren’t there, I’ve never just walked up to someone and asked them out as I don’t have the confidence. I met my girlfriend rock climbing, for me it’s is she looking for opportunities to talk to you, is she hanging off your every word when you do, does she laugh at what you do, does she comment on the small details about you? So one girl told me she loved my laugh. Another took the piss out of how I said some things but also that she liked it. Does she look into your eyes for a long time. Is she looking at your lips, a sign she’s thinking what it would be like to kiss you. Do they keep looking for opportunities to spend more time with you. If you meet randomly and they spend the whole night talking to you, very good sign.
All of these things should be taken with a pinch of salt, there are no guarantees, but they are good signs, on your part try your best to be confident, the more you do it, the more confident you’ll become

[Logorithim]

There is never a guarantee

[GreatSworl]

Would there be a few signs at least?

[sugarchateau]

No you never truly know. You do your best, fail, accept it and move on- what is meant for you will come to you, but it doesn't always stay. The process of facing your fears of chasing after what you want, acknowledging and accepting the pain of failure, proceeding to move on and put your emotion into healthily forms of creative expression is what builds an inner character of strength and courage. In order to be there for yourself, you gotta find a way to love yourself unconditionally as you are now so that you feel worthy of going through this and learn to trust yourself.

We're all learning this in our own way, if you'd like some specifics... Here's my take on it, in detail: The Gospel Changes a Servant into a Brother ↗

[sugarchateau]

People flirt/smile/fuck, not to get into relationships... but to just do these things selfishly. It's best to be discerning and to not go after what comes after you but to go after what you want- what you want and what comes back to you is what is meant for you.

[GreatSworl]

Sounds right I guess I just have to know myself. Going to have to take a much bigger risk in college I guess with women

[sugarchateau]

You get to know yourself as you fail and get back up, you're there for yourself- nobody else. Hopefully you choose to learn to love and appreciate yourself more through it all- or you let the fear of pain of vulnerability stop you from growing. Place trust in yourself, your own actions and not into others. I hope you discover these things for yourself. Life has a beautiful unexplainable way to just take you on intense rides of life lessons that hurt you but lead you to your truth- to deeper connections. it's worth facing the pain.

[rinx91]

Well not 100% but at least you can see how she respond to your flirt.. if she flirt back to you big chance she would say yes when you ask her out

[Anonymous]

No one can guarantee you that. Just be happy when she says yes

[JackSmy]

Noting is 100% and why would you want that? Life is about possibilities and most women seem to pay more attention, and connect, with guys that make them laugh, and feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE!!

[JamesBoradil03]

yes walking up to her, asking her out, and her saying yes