Will he contact me again and did I hurt his ego?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I really liked each other. He's looks like a gorgeous abercrombie model, but who is totally shy and sweet. I'm a hot blond w/big boobs, popular, but very sweet too. We were both nervous and shy w/each other, but had a wonderful time getting to know each other for a month. Our conversations were intimate, deep, and the chemistry was unbelievable. He finally had the guts to ask me out. When I accepted, he even said "good, I didn't know if you would say yes or no". So our date was scheduled for the following week.. I never hear from him again! I text him "I can;t believe you stood me up, you're the one who asked me out".. He didn't reply. For 3 longgg months, I was confused, angry, hurt. Guys are simple: either you like a girl and are interested, or you simply don't and you won't waste your time.. So I never had a guy so intimately get to know me, then change his mind and never talk to me again.. 3 months pass and out of no where he contacts me. He said he was a d*** and wanted to apologize. It had nothing to do with me as a person, but he just thought I was this and that and I was going to end up playing him. I let him know I was hurt and I BITCHEDD. I said I'm not a girl out of convenience and he had his shot. He wasn't even a gentleman to give me a heads up, so I wouldn't accept his apology. He begged for 1.5 hrs and said he would be about the best boyfriend out there. I didn't talk to him for 5 months. I wanted him to know how it felt. So, I finally contact him and I tell him, I tried getting over him, but I can't, and the person he was b4 he blew me off was my ideal, and I miss him. He said too late. Ugh! wtf. It went back and forth and he was sensitive but not letting me in, and he finally ended it with I'm with someone else. Guys, tell me what this all means? I checked online, he's totally single. Peeps are telling me I hurt his ego, so now he's gertting me back. But guys, tell me from the beginning what this means. WIll he contact me again,what are his intentions, I can't read him.thanks

[Allegory]

Am I the only one that thinks this is the kind of stuf you would except from an 18 year old relationship not a 30+ year old one? No disrespect god knows I just gout out of one shockingly almost as childish recently where she thought she could ignore/insult me and I would stick around for it for more then two weeks (still can't believe I did that long)

You like the guy, then talk. If he is seriously reformed he will have ample time to prove that every day you hang out, if not then HE WILL HAVE AMPLE TIME TO PROVE THAT. I really don't get this mental anguish over figuring out if this person is the right person 100% even before the first date.

He's a d*** for not canceling the date, standing you up and not talking for so many weeks. That is a real sign of immaturity but at the same time you either forgive and move on or you play the game and when you play the retaliatory game you both loose you just feel like some odd winner.

Your looking for a friend for life, this is the kind of person that would be a friend for life really? Just move on, date 100 people (I mean date not sleep with), kiss 20, sleep with 5, marry 1. Not really that hard unless people are paranoid to date which they are these days for some odd reason.

[l-hedoniste]

"I text him 'i can;t believe you stood me up, you're the one who asked me out'.. He didn't reply."

This should have been your last communication with him. Everything after this was a mistake. A guy who stands you up, *without apology*, is totally not into you.

Also, if you haven't yet noticed, he's an asshole.

[Anonymous]

if he was like extremely shy he won't go out with you , he may want you but he is so nervous

[FrancoBattiato]

Guys a douche, move on.

[Shaun]

I guess guys aren't as simple as you thought.