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One thing occurred to me, that sometimes with young guys who suffer the nice guy-problem to vaying degree, the actual issue is that they are out of sync with their peers.
I'm not talking about serious Nice Guy-problems here like a cowardly dude who zones in and dotes on one friend thinking it will lead into her panties eventually. and being this otherwise shitty person. No need to yet again break down what constitutes: Nice guy.

No, I'm talking about a young guy who's kind, orderly, soft-spoken, polite and well.. a little bland. Girls his own age want fun and excitement and that's something he can't provide very well but, here's the thing, women's tastes can be very different depending on age.

I've seen it happen several times that women a bit into their thirties or above seem to zone in on these guys. I remember it myself from when I was just 18, but I was too dumb to go along with it whenever the option was there thinking "I'm not supposed to" because <reasons>
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Newsflash: Young girls hit up older dudes all the time so why the f not?

That's a shame, because all you have to do in that situation is keep being your gentle accomodating self while going along with it. She doesn't mind taking the lead. You don't present any threat to her.
You don't have to worry about not being exciting enough, because the fact that you're lamb meat is enough.
Hell, she might even get a specific thrill breaking you in and teach you how to screw competently.
Sure, anything can happen but it's unlikely she wants any long relationship with you.

Out of luck nice guys. Why don't you go hit bars with that somewhat older demography, wait around until the bored recently divorced mama appears and comes to get you?