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I promise I don't ever lead a guy who is unavailable intentionally.

Unlike being around the men I am attracted to, I can really chill/relax around him and be my genuine self by feeling safe and secure knowing that he IS taken.

But somehow he will eventually start to get close to me, try to get to know me more + keep the conversation alive, subtle flirting, etc.
When those red flags go up, I will put up my boundaries and pull away. Not just for my sake, but to respect his girlfriend.
Except when I do so, he ends up pursuing me even more!

I get so confused on why a taken guy would do something like this.
Could it be my fault for being comfortable around him that he takes it like I'm "leading him on"?

Would you pursue a girl who was her authentic self around you and then started to pull away?

So, I have been knowing this guy through online dating for almost a year. We met twice and both times have been nice. We stayed at each other's place and had a good time.

When I asked him what he wants in our last meeting, he said he doesn't know what he wants. And that he doesn't understand himself. So I left him alone. And then he said he wants to try to make things work. And I agreed, putting one condition that he needs to make it clear to girls he used to flirt with that he is unavailable.

He hasn't came with a response yet. I reminded him that we still need to talk about that. And he hasn't answered me.

Do you think I should just move on? Or give him more time?

I was dating this man for 2 months almost a year ago. We both were after a break up, so we were not in the best shape. He was pursuing me, he introduced me to his friends and took me to wonderful dates, but never pushed me to anything physical. We have never had sex, only kissed. It was very romantic. Everytime, after we had a date, he sent me a text where he thanked me for a wonderful evening.
After a while he started to be weird and sometimes even mean. He kept apologising that he treats me bad, but he was saying he is having a difficult time and is "in a reconstruction mode". Once he even told me that "if he would draw a girl that is 100% of his type, it would be definitely me, but he is currently not ready for a relationship."
One morning (right after a date) he broke up with me via email.

He sent me a note during Christmas time, on my birthsday and now he flirts with me when he sees me.

I don´t want to dream about somebody unavailable, but I keep thinking of him and I miss him a lot. Even though we dated for a short period of time and it was a year ago.

Do you think is there any chance for us?