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for quite a while now I been noticing that both my counselor and psychiatrist have been asking me in every visit if i'm dating anyone at the moment. not sure what this is all about but I'm guessing they are perhaps asking this to see if my paranoia towards humanity or self esteem has improved in any way.

nevertheless no matter how good my mental health gets I still do not see any point in dating. to me dating is no different or perhaps just a water down hypocritical version of prostitution. you know all you're basically doing while dating is taking a woman out and feeding her with your own money just to hope that she either falls in love with you or at least have sex with you after you're done feeding her.

besides that I also think that just like marriage and relationships dating itself is very one sided because the girl is always the one that gets all the victory out of it. she gets fed her favorite food for free, she has sex and many other things that will benefit her in the long run. hell my past experiences are not helping me out either, not sure if its PTSD but I remember the girl who almost won the title as my first girlfriend was a total sociopath that scarred me. the second one who actually did become my first girlfriend was a drama queen who wasn't relationship material. since then I never met a woman who is actually relationship or even dating material at all.

till then again I really dont see any point in dating. I see so many negativity that revolves around dating nowadays that I dont I feel is just not worth the effort; whether i'm mentally healthy or not

I've always been a rather prude person completely against showing skin in any way.

As such, I've always worn rather long shirts, and barely ever raised my arms in public for the fear of my belly showing in front of people. Not long like a dress, but a couple of inches below where my pants start. Enough to cover my belt, let's say that.

Ironically, some shirts of the same size do show my belly when I do that, while others don't... perhaps their material is slightly different... it's kind of weird, but it happens.

However, my girlfriend's belly shows a lot more.

Most of her shirts end literally right above where her jeans start. Belt not covered at all. So obviously, any little rise is gonna make her belly show. As she does that, her shirt briefly rises up the slightly above her belly button. Much more than me.

As I do that, only like an inch of my belly or two shows... nowhere near my belly button, but still showing skin.