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i have an LDR with my boyfriend. It is so tough and we miss each other so much. I got to visit him for 2 days and i told my friends at his country that i couldn’t meet them bcs i want to spend some quality time with him. Additionally, we discussed that we want to spend those 2 days with just us. But on the d-day he keep asking me that we should meet his friend and have a double date. I said to him a ‘no’ and thought he would understand. But the next day he said he was guilty to his friend and keep saying to me that we have to meet them or at least ask them to go out with us when actually we doesn’t mean any of that.

i mean why do you even ask someone out, when actually we don’t mean to invite them? I hate being fake!

two, am i too boring that he doesn’t want to spend those 2 days with me? And only me?

three, out of the blue he said that his old crush got ask him that if they were still friend, cause he brag to me that he always refuse to meet her, and he said that the reason is ME?

Ok so I recently started dating this guy. I didn't really want to have a monogamous relationship to begin with but he really wanted to date so I said fuck it I'll give it a shot. Mind you, he's my first boyfriend. Things where going great but the sex started to get boring, and his drive was low. We talked about an open relationship but decided not to do that, since he didn't like the idea of me sleeping with someone else and I was happy with our current arrangement. We didn't have sex for two days, and then he started asking about reconsidering the open relationship and sounding really upset, so I new something was off. He finally stopped bullshitting and said that he had fucked his ex. side note I get a hall pass since he cheated. The fucked up thing is is him cheating doesn't really make me feel heart broken or make me want to dump him. I basically said "wow really? You could do better." Is there something wrong with me...