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Me and my ex boyfriend broke up over an argument a week ago (mainly caused from my trust issues)
Most of our fights is because of my lack of trust for him
He has never cheated on me before but I kept thinking he will cheat like my previous ex did but I realize now that I'm an idiot for not trusting him :(
I have told all my close friends about everything thats happened and also the things during the relationship (the good and the bad)
They all think he's a great guy (some of them have seen him already) as they know he treats me right and all that and thinks my boyfriend truly loves me
My ex even told my friend's boyfriend that I'm the best girlfriend he has ever had
All of my friends think he's going to come back even though he has blocked me from everything and deleted all our pictures straight away
They think it was the heat of the moment and he's not thinking straight at the moment and still angry and need space and that when he calms down, he will come back and talk to me
Then I asked my big brother for advice (my ex is 27 and my bro is 29) so similar age and my bro has met him before
My big brother thinks he's a great guy as well
I told my big brother what happened and all the things my ex boyfriend had done for me and all that
He told me that my ex is sick of my trust issues and that I should be the one apologizing and try messaging him again to see if he replies or not
But he thinks that my ex might not come back
Which one should I believe?
My friends or my big brother?
Im so confused

I was dating someone I didn't love (in a romantic manner) for 7 months but really liked his company. I met him a couple days before his 25th b-day and he was a very late bloomer.

I knew this and kind of used that as my comfort. I wanted to feel secured. It felt as if I was in control for the first time ever (this guy was an engineer but not streetsmart, even less than an 18 year-old fellow). I don't know how he found out but he dumped me and wants nothing to do with me. I'm banned from ever visiting his family as well too, none wants to see me.

I never cheated though. I was hoping that maybe I might come to loving him in the romantic way. I wasn't going to dump him though. I wanted to continue to progress as far as it could have.

I know this guy, says he's rich at least and says he's been with a lot of women, including models, college graduates, and actors. He's rich and successful. ( he's old enough to be my dad) I'm not rich or successful. He wants to get to know me because he thinks I'm interesting. But I have this strange thing with myself. I tend to feel inferior to friends who I think did more in their life than I did or who are smarter. I actually thought about what if this man was my boyfriend. He's rich, successful. And he's had so many girlfriends before me and it makes me feel insecure. He might leave me for a smarter, prettier girl or cheat. I'd prefer being with a guy that no one notices. The guy that barely has friends, the guy that girls and other people often overlook. I want him to be that special diamond that's only for me. He's nice, loving, funny makes a decent income but he doesn't get much attention from people, I want a guy that gets most of his attention from his family, two or three friends and me. I want him to be a virgin with little to no sex partners. Dating or being in a relationship with someone who's filthy rich, tall, good looking and extremely successful to the point he's popular. I don't like that. I really don't like the fact that guys I might date have ex's who are prettier than me. Is it bad that things like this bother me? I'd date a poor, depressed dude whos a virgin and I'd be happy but for some reason the thought of having sex with a rich dude makes me feel uncomfortable and insecure and I don't know why. What's wrong with me?