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Do you believe men have become much more feminine and soft compared to previous generations? You hear women complaining all the time how there aren't any real men anywhere.

They have done studies on mental health of different cultures around the world, and the HEALTHIEST ones are small tribes where *shocker* men have ritualistic fighting and do things like hunt wild animals to grow up.

And then you look at our culture, where ANY kid fighting in school results in punishment and suspension/expulsion(because the teachers are 98% female and women believe any violence is the devil). You have women raising boys without a father figure and then the statistics *shocker* show that these men have the most problems in life. Is it any wonder that men have become emasculated wimps? The rugged tough guy, is usually the guy that got out of jail, and also happens to get laid more than 95% of the rest of guys out there because he has this alien thing *confidence* which he developed by breaking rules and taking risks, telling people exactly what he thinks instead of sugarcoating sh*t like everyone else does (the reason nice guys /girls fail) and not being insecure about every opinion/decision he makes.

Now its more important to "be nice" than to be honest, we have stupid bullsh*t telling everyone that "everyone's a winner" etc etc to inflate peoples egos into narcissism by "protecting their feelings", but what were actually doing is taking the easy route of lying to them instead of telling them the truth. The psychologists seemed to forget the common sense that competence is what creates confidence, not vice-versa. link

Do you think our culture turns men into softies?