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First off me and my boyfriend been together for 1 year and 2 months
This is both our longest relationship
My boyfriend's first relationship was 4 years ago and was with this girl he works with - she was his first girlfriend and first girl he had sex with
They dated for 6 months until she left him for another guy
3 years later, he got into another relationship with this other girl and dated for 4 months
They broke up coz she was using him for money
Then 2 months later, he met me and we started dating
During our relationship, I go out a lot with my group of friends to clubbing, dinner, concert, house parties, etc
I've never invited him because he doesn't like clubbing or partying or loud music
Whenever I told him, im going.. he will say "okay, have fun"
I asked him "do you not care if i go clubbing and all?"
He has told me "nah you can go. I trust you. You know what? you're the only girl I've dated that I trust. The other girls I've dated, when they go out, I always have this question in the back of my mind "what are they doing?" Or "are they cheating on me?".. but when it comes to you, I never questioned your intentions. I know you will not do anything stupid."
And i asked "how?"
He said "coz we have been together for over a year. I know your personality now"
Does he trust me or dont care?
Does it seem genuine?
How does he go from not trusting the other girls he dated to actually trusting me?
When i do go clubbing, he does make sure he calls me the next morning to see where I am and see if im okay and talk about it and stuff

Me and my boyfriend been together for 1 year and 2 months
My previous relationship was messed up - I was going out with him for 6 months when I caught him with another girl. I found out this girl is his "main chick". They had been dating for 3 years. So this means im the "side chick" so yeah he has been cheating on me this whole fkn time. This ended 3 years ago
So I started having trust issues with men ever since then
I still have trust issues to be honest and I think its affecting me and my current bf's relationship
Lately, everything he does, I have been accusing him of cheating and trying to attract women
For example, he has been training at gym for 8 years and always uploading photos of himself at gym
I know this is his thing and to see his progression but lately I keep thinking that he's training at gym and uploading photos to attract women and trying to get their attention
I was going mental about it and kept nagging him how he's trying to get other girls attention and stuff like that
And he said to me:
"you got freakin issues. You need to get over your trust issues and your past. Im not the same guy you dated that messed around with you. Im a different guy. I have never cheated on you. If i wanted to, I couldve done it ages ago. I wanna be with you. Im trying so hard to be patient but one day Im going to click. If you keep doing this and can't trust me then how is our relationship going to work? I trust you with all my heart and you dont even trust me. You need to see a counsellor or talk to someone close to you. If you keep doing this, its going to ruin our relationship. Please fix yourself. I can't fix it for you. You have to fix this part by yourself. If you can't trust me, then dont be with me. "
Am i right to be upset that he wants me to see a counsellor?
do you guys think i sound crazy? 😔
Does this mean he thinks im crazy?

Yesterday night i had planned to be with my boyfriend all day and night but my friends askd me to go to a house party
But i decided to be with my boyfriend instead coz i dont want him thinking i wanna be single and i feel uncomfortable going to house parties when im in a relationship
So i told him about this:
Me - you know.. my friends asked me to go to this house party tonight
Him - oh ok. I wouldn't mind you going, you know that right?
Me - really? But there's a lot of single guys there. a lot of fuckboys.
Him - yeah. But you still go out clubbing sometimes too. there's a lot of single guys and fuckboys too. I never stopped you from going, did I? You can go. I dont mind it. I know you won't do anything. I just have this trust with you. I've never had this type of trust with any of my exes. I always think theyre going to do something dodgy. But with you, its different. I feel like I can trust you to not do anything. I never think "ohh what is she doing? Is she going to cheat?" When you go out clubbing. I dont know why. Maybe coz its your personality. I can trust you.
Me - hmm thats interesting
Is this good thing?
Does this mean he really does trust me or doesn't care at all?
We have been together for over 1 year
Im 22 , he's 27

First off... me and my boyfriend been togeth for over a year
I had a bad previous relationship which ended 3 years ago
But i still have some trust issues
So i dont fully 100% trust my boyfriend
Over the course of our relationship, he has given me his passwords to his devices (phone, computer, etc)
I was checking his phone the other day and he was searching up girls on his fb and instagram (girls that he knows.. from work, from his high school, from primary school)
But he doesn't talk to any girls.. only the ladies at his workplace (he works in nursing home so majority working are old nurses and middle aged nurses but there are few young girls too)
Im not sure why he did this?
But i was quite jealous and got abit mad so i confronted him about it
Our conversation:
Me - so i know you're talking and searching up girls?
Him - yeh i talk to girls from work only and its all work related
Me - why u searching girls up? I saw your fb and instagram
Him - i dont just search girls up. I search guys up too. Wth?
Me - so u wanna be with those girls u searched up?
Him - what u talking about? I cbf talking about this. I did nothing wrong. Think whatever u want babe.
Me - yeah you're searching up and looking at their photos and all that
Him - think whatever you want. Im not doing anything wrong. I know im not doing anything wrong. I know what i do. Im not cheating on you. You even know all my passwords. Stop being insecure. Are u trying to argue with me like u always do? I can't be bothered arguing right now.
Me - and you liking and commenting girls pictures (*im lying about this by the way.. just wanna see reaction*)
Him - um no i dont. I know if i do, you will go psycho on me like u did before. And i had to spend hours to calm you down. Yea dont have time for that shit so not going to do it.
He was talking to me throughout in a calm tone
Wtf?
Does he seem genuine about it?

So first off.. my previous relationship messed me up big time. My ex cheated on me.. this was 4 years ago. I never loved my ex but still.. it hurts.
So i still have some trust issues with guys
I have been with my current boyfriend for over a year
Ever since my ex cheated, i have been insecure about myself
So I've been insecure during my relationship with my current boyfriend
Recently its been worse
Sometimes i would accuse my boyfriend of cheating.. or doing something dodgy behind my back
Last night he messaged me something " this pic is for you babe😚😚😚"
But i didn't see the picture
So i thought he sent it to another girl and accidently messaged me
So i called him straight away and said "who did u send the pic too? Wheres the pic?"
And he said "i sent u already. I sent u the pic first and then messaged u"
And then i said "now i saw the picture... u sent it after u messaged. Did u send it to the wrong girl? Did u send the pic to another girl?"
And he goes "wtf? I only sent it to you. Maybe ur internet is slow thats why the pic didn't go through. The pic was only meant for u"
And then i said "are u sure?"
Then he said "look if you think im cheating on you, just dump me. Simple. I've told u million of times that im not cheating on u and that i wanna be with u only. If i wanted to cheat, i wouldve done it ages ago. Stop being insecure. Just dump me if u dont trust me and think im cheating"
doesn't that mean he doesn't care?
He doesn't care if we broke up?
Was i in the wrong or him?