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Today I had a strange encounter with my lovely ex's new boyfriend. I went to the cinema where accidentally I faced with the guy when I head up on the escalator. He just took the next escalator in front of me, when we noticed each other. Then when he arrived on top of the next escalator, he arrived first, the guy stopped and waited until I arrived, passed near him to take the upcoming escalator. He played with his phone, but he gazed me from the corner of his eyes (Stupid store windows are betrayed the idiot.). Then I took the next escalator and he came right after me. Then he followed me onto the next on too. And I swear he watched my ass, or at least that's how it seemed.

I already thought the guy is gay, regardless he is with my ex, or at least he seems to be gay, but if not, frankly, why would anyone wait the former boyfriend of his present girlfriend to take the escalator first after noticing the other guy , then follow him instead of being "followed" (I didn't follow the guy as we came from two different direction, just accidentally met.)? Or version b, the guy is afraid of me (While we've never spoken before.) and he might think that I would slap him into his stupid head (He would deserve it.).

I definitely found this situation strange, so my question, what would you think if you would be in a similar awkward situation?

I currently drive a 1997 Toyota Camry. While it is better than what you would expect for its age, it still is a car that I dont want to drive much longer and I would rather have something at least a bit sporty, like a manual Mazda 3 perhaps. Either coincidentally or not, I have never been anywhere close to having a girlfriend.

Do girls care about what kind of car I drive? It is possible that my mom might give me her 2009 Honda Pilot when she gets a new car and I'll have it until I can choose a car for myself. It is a bit too big and boxy for my personal taste. Will I look more attractive driving the Pilot than the Camry? I can't afford to go to a dealer and choose a car. Once I graduate college, my parents are offering me a car as a graduation present. I'm probably graduating 2 years late, hence the fact that I'm 22 and talking about college graduation being some time away.

In the pictures, the green car is similar to what I drive now. No spoiler though. The silver car is what my mom drives now and might give to me when she gets a new car. The red car is the Mazda 3, which I'm thinking of getting after college.

So I turned 18 fairly resonantly and never had a real relationship even though I really wanted one for SO SO LONG. I’m shy and introverted though and only have a few close friends and that’s because of social anxiety due to severe bullying back when I was younger and never fitting in with others at school. Anyway at this point I’d give absolutely anything just to have a pretty girl to wrap her in my arms, snuggle with, talk to about my day, kiss her, have an intercourse with her (if she’s comfortable with it of course) etc. People say I have so much love and empathy in my heart waiting to be passed on to others but at the present moment only people I can think of giving it to are pretty girls as they are my #1 Priority and I’d do anything I can to make a girl feel loved but if I find her and the intensity is released on only focusing on girls then yes I’ll give it to other people too. The thought of so many other people YOUNGER than me being able to go a lot farther in terms of being sexually active and stuff makes me so depressed, feel so low and want to self harm. Sometimes I think of giving myself a 3rd degree burn (please don’t judge) because I feel an urge too. Haven’t gone that far yet and yes I know I’ll need skin graphs if I do it. (Not only dating I also have a couple bad phobias too and yes I have been seeing a therapist).

Anyway bottom line is that I wanted to ask if it was normal for someone my age in my position (never having a girlfriend once and really wanting one) to be so girl crazy where all he ever thinks of is wrapping a girl in his arms, will do absolutely anything for one and gets so depressed thinking of others having it especially those who don’t deserve it. Ex. Those who just want sex.

So here's the deal. I've been in a serious relationship for about 5 years now I love her so much we've lived together for a little over a year now; however all of my friends say I've changed for the worse in the way that in way more stressed out all the time, and I came to work overall tired and just overall less chipper. They all say I should leave her but that's ridiculously hard to do after all the time we've spent together. She wants me to go to Oregon with her to finish school but that means for me leaving my friends and family, (which I know that comes with any move) and my job that pays pretty well. I know that if I go I'm gonna have to work multiple part time jobs to bring in the same money I make now, which okay that really sucks but I love her, but the thing that makes me uneasy is I was told by my best friend while my girlfriend was hanging out with his girl, she told my friends girl that she would leave me if I didn't come with. I was really upset she didn't tell me that herself #1 and #2 this kind of ultimatum seems childish to me. I confronted her to see if that was true and it was and she didn't seem to think there was anything wrong with that... That brings me to the present. I am in Alaska for work and will be for the next 4 months which gives me a lot of time to myself to think. I just want to hear a few opinions on what I should do stay with her and move or leave and let her go. Sorry for writing a book but all the details are important I think lol