I am 18 and they’re both, 35. I’m very close to my uncle, and I do feel like she see me like shit. For example he invited me to have a dinner with them, and I heard them behind a door fighting because of that. She ordonned to chose between me and her. To stop that, I waited them to come back to the living room, and told them that I had to go somewhere else. She seem to get along with my brother , but she hate the fact that I’m my uncle’s favourit niece. I don’t know why she is acting like that, I mean... it’s Clair that my uncle and I, have a normal relationship, and that if he don’t see me like a niece , he see me like his daughter or his little sister. But his girlfriend even act like this with me at home, for example she bringer à présent for my brother and my parents but she acted like she forget my present, or during my birthday, she created a problem because my uncle offered me an expensive necklace, she yelled at him, telling that spoiling me will turn me into a bitchy brat. I don’t want to creat a problème so I just shut up, and I even stopped to visit my uncle on his house like I was doing it, or when he went to hang out with me, I find an excuse. What should I do? Why is she acting like that?
You should find the best possible solution.. everyone here can say don't give a fuck about her be you do whatever you want but that's not the case.. so rather you have to prioritize is it that your happiness matters or ur uncles's happiness.. just don't create the problem by going there avoid everything evade her and after a couple ah years just ask straight up to her... cuz if a person is questioned like that emotionally they will get confused and feel guilty so just con everyone 😎 your happiness is all that matters.
Play it up. Can you make yourself cry? Next time you are over and something happens or she does something, break into tears and look at her and say ' why do you hate me so much? i have given you every chance, and you treat me unfairly, for no reason. why?' Then see what she does to get herself out of the hole she dug. And your uncle will be on your side with the tears. The B deserves to get called out. Angry outbursts will not get you anywhere. Tears and whys will.
She is jealous because maybe ( This will sound disgusting) you are better looking then her and ur uncle will want to lie with u or something like that She is gettin along with ur brother because she probably thinks he is good looking or something
Talk to your uncle and tell him how you feel She is trying to make u and your uncle fight and break up the family
She’s pouring too much haterade in her drink. She’s a ridiculously insecure bitch. Nothing more. Nothing less. I’d advise that you step on her like a roach... but then she might kill you, so maybe don’t do that. You should just straight up call her out for what she is: JEALOUS FOR NO LOGICAL REASON
She's jealous and insecure. There is nothing wrong with having a favorite niece. You're nice to your uncle, he's nice back, and that is that. She's jealous because she had an old lady body while you have a tight teen body. She's saggy and you're solid. Her insecurity is going to drive them apart, and then you can be at your uncle's house all the time. Give it time. Seems like he's getting tired of her behavior
She feels like he gives you more attention or she never had her dad in her life and doesn't want to share a male figure. If you are at his house multiple times a week maybe you should tone it down. She may want to be more intimate with him but you're around. My first observation seems to be the problem. Its no reason for her to act that why she a little jealous of the love he has for you and she may have wanted that from her dad but never got it.
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