I feel so lonely?

[Anonymous]

i have no one to talk to when i come back home from school or on weekends.

I have my parents but they're busy with work or always on the phone to their friends. my sisters are always on the phone with their friends or they're busy revising. my brother is always playing with his playstation or on the phone. And my friends are just school friends i try and talk to them outside of school but it just feels one sided and i don't want to force a relationship or it just won't feel real.

1 just feel like a burden to everyone and i try and deal with my own situations cause if i tell people then it's either that they don't care or they'll listen and give me the best advice (not trying to be rude. i don't have any close friends and if i do talk to my friends outside of school i just feel like i'm forcing them to like they don't actually want to talk to me.

I feel like the odd one out of my group and i feel like they might drop me. maybe i'm the problem i don't know. what should i do?
(by the way i can talk to people like making friends but sometimes i can just be an introvert and not talk because i'm also shy).

[dreamstar72]

I know how you feel it’s lonely. I was in the same situation as you are now except I didn’t even have any brothers or sisters left at home. The people at school didn’t really talk to me much. Was like a ghost to them, long story nothing bad I did. So I thought up an odd and strange stories to write, mostly about those little bugs called ants. It was fun, you lucky you have the computer, tablet and the internet, because all I had was paper, pen and the library. That will past the time and you might even become a great writer. Your best friend is yourself. I was rather lonely until I turned 21 then meet a fabulous girl and my life was complete. It will also happen to you also you just have to think outside the box. As for friends in school if they don’t treat you as being real, then find friends that will.

[Asker]

yeah i used to journal but i haven’t done it for months as i’ve been really busy and i don’t have enough time. but i will definitely try again and try to find better friends for me. thank you.

[Jamie05rhs]

Are you in any groups in school? Have you considered possibly doing drama (theatre)? I participated in that in high school and it was a lot of fun.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Asker]

I don't know what “MHO” means but no i’m not in any groups. i’ve almost finished school and i’ve just been trying to study.

[gorydetails]

You need to get out of your head. If people didn't want to talk to you, they wouldn't.

[Asker]

hmm that’s true

[Pillubi]

Let's be friends, come on 🫂

[Asker]

yess!

[mickeysmonkey]

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