I think many people misinterpret being "alone" with "loneliness". Loneliness sometimes stems from being alone. Don't isolate yourself. Go out with your friends, or just talk to someone. I have been lonely, and it was the worst feeling ever. Some people say that pain is the worst, but what they don't realize is that, even being lonely can cause pain. I joined G@G out of loneliness, to be honest. Never thought i would stay for this long. It was an odd feeling, everything was depressing. I lost interest in stuff that i liked to do.. there was this void which i felt like it could never be filled. I hope you are doing okay though. Hugs 💛
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Yes it usually goes away on Sunday as I'm preparing for school. I joined GAG for the same reason. It's been four years I believe and I'm still here lol. I kind of got used to the community and now don't wanna leave lol. I think people on here are both wise and hilarious. Take care ❤
Friday! That was when (just 5 mos ago) my friends and I would all meet at someone’s house, get made up, dress to the max, and go out clubbing after a hard week of high school! It’s not that I just sit here alone now, but there are times when, at a certain time, I think “wow, if this was still high school, we’d all be sitting waiting on “so-and-so” to hurry up and let’s go!” Then I’ll think, “well hell by now, we’d all be hating on “so-and-so” because she is taking so long again!” But, yeah… Friday’s do it for me!
I don't think I've ever really thought about it be honest I think that I keep myself so busy did I don't think about it I'll tell you what if Saturday is your day and if I'm on here and you feels lonely even if you just want to chat send me a message I would love to chat with you
For me its sundays as I know the next day my parents are going to hastle me to get job despite I'm spending like 12 to 15 hours a day for a decent job and many of the good ones are often at shit hours or pay so little I feel like I'm wasting my time working there.
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Everyday is lonely. Even if I'm in a group of people. That's the hardest time. People don't care about each other anymore. Nobody builds relationships, just acquaintances. Life is to busy, to many electronics. We are very social animals, we need connection, understanding and compassion. Most people are lying when they say their not lonely, then bury themselves into social media, only masking their loneliness, fooling themselves.
It's not possible to stay alone while staying with my notorious sister under the same roof. But yes I feel lonely in Holidays because my parents are more busy that day and my sister goes with my mom to her office so I am left all alone in home. But I like staying like that.
I would say Saturday too. Really depends to be honest, but yea Saturday seems to be that day that punches me in the gut saying "2 more days till you can see your boyfriend" unless we have plans on that day, then yea when I'm alone on a Saturday, I'll most likely sulk.
For some reason Sundays, Sunday night. I get anxiety at times. You'd think it was Fri or Sat night.. but nope. I'm content with my aloneness. I've learned to only go out when inspired and in thr mood. Trust me, if uku go out due to loneliness your not gonna have a good time and maybe be I'm bad company.
Mostly Sundays since I have no work and it's not the hottest night for going out. Most people spend it in close knit circles and mine just isn't there anymore
On any of my days off where I don't have anywhere to go and nothing to do. Though I enjoy being lonely. Most people don't and I feel bad for those people
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Sunday nights-Tuesday’s. I used to plan my work schedule based on the days where my (now ex) boyfriend had days off. He would come over on the days we both had off and it definitely gets lonely now that he’s not here. Especially at night where we would sleep and cuddle together.
Rarely do these days, live with OH and kids so rarely alone. Was alone before. Sundays were worst I'd say. Fewer friends would want to socialise on a Sunday
Thank you I hope it gets better for you as well. I know how bad q feeling it can be. When I was away with work most of the week I drove every week. I was so lonely in the hotel along with my other mental healths tuff that I did hope I didn't end up there.
I hope it's not that bad for you and that it doesn't get that bad.
