My friend's toddler is having very nosiy tantrums and the child psychologist said that is normal in his age (3). But it comes to a point that she doesn't want to go outside because of him and I am worried about her.
At some point.
Maybe you can find out if there is a trigger. Like toothache, from growing teeth, or other pain. Maybe its when he/she wants something and thats the way he/she gets it.
But maybe its just the toddler being overwhelmed by the world, his feelings and the overall whole situation. Remember toddlers have to learn sooooo much and sometimes they have no other way to show how they feel but to "throw a tantrum", because they don't even know how they feel.
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They need to be so tired that they sleep. Tell your friend to go the park, and whilst keeping a firm eye on him at all times, let him run about and knock himself out.
When I was a kid, nobody even considered child psychologists. Parents used their common sense.. No offence to your friend!
When they get married and have kids of their own… (JK!!! 2-3 is the super difficult phase. 4 tends to be magically cute and after that they’re in school and getting into all kinds of mischief.)
Get him in an activity. Martial arts classes will focus that energy and teach discipline in a space it's okay to have a tantrum.
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With children of this age you need to talk to them rationally , your friend engaged in babytalk , she gave the kid a reason to be loud ( result ) speak to children with correct grammar , explain to them situations , its extreme poor parenting that leads to these reactions by children..
I never had a problem , its all common sense , never speak to a child as if it is inferior , the very worst of this being " baby speak " or the like.
Sounds like he's still in the "terrible twos" stage. He'll probably grow out of it in the next few months.
My son had some big fights with us when he was alert enough to know what he wants, but couldn't communicate it to us clearly. As his language has grown he's grown out of that kind of tantrum.They don't. Being rambunctious is part if their normal development. Best thing to do is keep them engaged in doing things, whether that be running and playing outside or building things with blocks or doing age-appropriate jigsaw puzzles.
Do not just sit them in front of the TV.
Nothing is more useless for child care than a "child psychologist".
As for the friends toddler, it's probably cold, bored or gassy. It doesn't want to "go outside" as it's cold, boring, or makes it more gassy.
Well, this is all part of raising a kid. It's eventually going to stop probably before he/she starts primary school.
When they're no longer a toddler, haven't you ever heard of the terrible two's & threes andvthevhorrible fours?
Before you go about the medicine pill route what foods are you giving him? You might want to change his diet and see how it effects him. Experiment with one food at a time and see how he reacts. If all else fails then try the typical medicine route. You could also take him to a playground and let him wear himself out that way
When you tell them the boogeyman will eat them if they don't shut up.
If she curtails her life Because of the little parasite he's already won. She's in charge and needs to act like it. Don't use violence be firm. Once you are firm you can go to using rewards.
when you don't let them have success with throwing a tantrum. if you somehow enable them to get what they want by throwing a tantrum, guess what. the kid is gonna throw a tantrum a lot.
At about 20 years old maybe. There are still restaurants that we are not allowed back to
It doesn’t stop until they start school. Does he have any other kids he can play with? Maybe he is bored.
They don't lol. Another reason why I may not have kids haha
Mine always calmed down pretty fast after I gave her a hug.
Wheres the Dad? Boys need a Man to look up to. Someone who is calm no matter what.
Judging by what I see online, some of them are still that way into their 40's.
She thinks she has problems now? Rolls eyes.
They calm down after you beat the shit out of them.
When there no longer toddlers
When she figures out how to be a parent
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