Why is he being so cold?

Question

I have a toddler and she is out of control sometimes. When she get her way she has big tantrums. I don't spank her. And when I try to calm her down she get louder. Every time my husband hears her cry he gets mad at me and talks badly about my parenting skills. So every time she has fits it makes me nervous because I know I will piss him off. For example.. She was eating a crayon and I took it away from her... she started crying. He started yelling at me.. he never ask what happens He just go on the attack. He said"I just interact with them differently. 80% of y'all did bad job. U good in some areas. But the men approach is different. And your ways and mind I wouldn't want for them girls and who wants to be with someone like that" I went to the bathroom and broke down and cried.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you picked a bad husband and a bad father for your child. so he's just standing there while you are trying to calm down your child and just gets mad and bitches about your parenting skills? as if he's doing anything to help? yeah fuck that guy...

if i'm not mistaken, marriage and parenting is supposed to be a team effort... this guy seriously sucks at both marriage, parenting, and in general life.

no one should feel like this when their toddler is crying. you shouldn't feel mild panic because you're afraid of how your husband will react because your child is crying.

so honestly i would just be like "okay then, why don't YOU do something to help calm our child instead of acting like an asshole and judging me?"

Brando10222 · Accepted Answer

Your husband is toxic in this situation. He can get mad at you for bad parenting? He forgot that he is equally responsible for bringing the child in this world as much as you are? I'm sorry for my language but what the fuck is he doing? I really get pissed when guy's treat their partners this way. Fucking morons!

Shamalien · Accepted Answer

Ask him if he’d rather she die of crayon poisoning. He sounds like he doesn’t know much about parenting

Mithatgns · Answer

Hello. It is normal for her to react instantaneously because she is very fond of him. It's up to you to leave it to his care. then he can understand you very well.