Why would a narcissist think I'm his friend?

[Vesuvius87]

My narcissistic ex boyfriend contacted today (a couple hours ago) on my WhatsApp through another new number. He does that several months later, contacts me under different numbers.

His message: Hi my friend

Me: blocks that number too

Neither me nor any of my friends nor family want anything to do with him. He took money from me and had the nerves to call me friend. Why would he think I'm his friend?

Updates

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This idiot stalks my fb page through different usernames since I've blocked him already. He once admitted that he found out about my 2nd break-up from a while back. The only way he would know this is by checking on my FB activities. Therefore, he's my FB stalker.

[DryGermanGuy]

Like all narcissists he is in love with himself and thus assuming everybody else must be, too.

[Vesuvius87]

That's pretty much it and they end up alone, by themselves eventually. I hope he gets the message that he's not ever welcome ever again.

[HollyK21]

I doubt he actually considers you friends, he’s just trying to find the safest approach and hopes you’ll take the bait.

[Vesuvius87]

I'll just end up blocking him. Whatever he has to say is toxic. There is nothing I want to talk to him about. I hope he gets the message that he's not wanted at all.

[HollyK21]

I totally understand! I have a strange man I broke up with in my early teens, had no romantic ties to since then, yet now at 32 he still occasionally tries to call or reach out, despite knowing I’m not only entirely, completely uninterested in him, but I’m also engaged and still pretends it’s not real. Some people are deeply troubled. If he isn’t posing as a threat, then keep doing what you’re doing and hopefully he will get the message.

[Fireguy17]

because he is a narcissist.
The world revolves around them.

[BLP11520]

He wants something, he’s a taker, not a giver get him out of your life

[Vesuvius87]

He's already been blocked on all my social medias. Whenever he contacts me from a different number, I just keep blocking him.

[BLP11520]

Good , you don’t need the aggravation

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow! That's crazy. He stole you money and comes back acting like nothing happened

[Vesuvius87]

Exactly. He scammed me in every single way, emotionally, monetarily and physically. I got used not just for sex but also money and him faking even the beginning of our friendship. He's actually a sociopathic-narcissist, one of the worst men any woman can meet. He future fakes with women, promising them marriage and kids, purposely holding them back and never progressing things. Obviously he has become my father's worst enemy.

[jahaims]

Because they are a narcissist

[Vesuvius87]

They're really mentally ill aren't them? They can wrong others badly and then just casually say hi to you as if nothing ever happened. Wow.

[jahaims]

They don't process emotions the same as a normal person

[Jennz6]

I don’t think so